How do you react if almost everyone is talking negative things about you behind your back because of past?

Answer 1

Fire those folks (they're being rude, anyway) and cultivate new friends and create new family that has no such inclinations.

Never tolerate negative people!

Answer 2

IGNORE them!!! No one is perfect and we all make mistakes!!! People will always talk... they will talk about you until they find someone else to talk about! Just move on with your life, if they want to be ignorant than let them. Show them that you are a better person now and that you have changed by ignoring the fact that they talk about you behind your back. If you are really close to these people confront them about it and ask them when they are alone! That way they will feel intimidated by answering to you... you tell them to get a life and that they arent so pefect them selves.. obviously they dont have anything better to do with their lives than to sit there and belittle you for the mistakes you have made!! I say F them!!! Live will go on!!!

Answer 3

When I wanted to make my career a private matter, I didn't feel comfortable telling other people like my family and other relatives what I did for a living. Mind you, my career was very legitimate. So I either made up what I did for a living or tell them that I can't talk about it right now. And they are like "Is it legal?" LOL! They are not paying my bills and not financially supporting me so I didn't feel like it was none of their business.
I also heard through the grapevine that my aunt was gossipping and tried to guess what I did for a living and she said "Maybe she's a stripper" to other relatives.This made me furious but I let it go and let her believe what she wanted.

Answer 4

U don`t: Unfortunately, our PAST is our past, and no matter what we do, there is alway`s going to b sm1 that keep`s refreshing our memories abt them.
I say this because ppl talk abt us all thru
life, to sm degree, but we r entitled to live our live`s, and entitled to make our own mistake`s, and there is only 1 person that we truely have to answer to, and we will when we must. Ppl have tlk`d abt me b4, and I was truely impressed,sm of the thng`s sd wr`nt evn true but I now know that these ppl, talk abt us, as a way of escaping their own REALITY!!!!! Folo me closely: ( Now my sister Clara speak`s on me, yet she has a HUSBAND, and a BOYFRIEND on the other side of town. Then there`s Missy,
who`s very VOCAL abt everyone, yet she goes to school evry da, but she has neglected to tell our Parent`s that she DROPPED OUT 6 month`s ago. Then
we have David, who speak`s on evry1. Although he has`nt bn MARRIED a year,
he has a 4 month pregnat girlfriend accross town.) Now although None of these particular character`s actually exsist in my Life, I do have ppl like them in my family unit. We all have them. Ignore them, I know it`s Hard, but they eventually do GO AWAY, and one day all THEIR secret`s will come out, but as long as they keep the vocus on other`s, their secret`s remain SAFE for another day. All these ppl that speak on u, HAV DEMON`S OF THEIR OWN. Your PAST won`t go away, but it will get easier to accept.. Trust me I should know!!! GL!
I`M Out
Passion

Answer 5

Smile and say somthing like "My, you have a good memory." And turn your back on them. Get on with your life and know who you are. Don't bother with getting friends that will side with you on such issues with 'the past' or even involved in it. All of that is silly and stupid.

Answer 6

Confide in a good friend to share my burden. And ignore all those who talk negatively about me. They will stop somehow.

Answer 7

IGNORE THEM. There's nothing better than having a good & more mature attitude than people who having nothing else better to do than talk crap about you.