I went on a date with this guy last Thursday. I actually thought it went well. Better than most other dates I've been on. However, the goodbye was short and he didn't even try to hug me or anything. He said he'd call though. Well it's been a few days...haven't heard from him. Am i kidding myself by thinking it could possibly work out if I give him a call? I was a little quiet and nervous on the date, maybe he took that as lack of interest on my part? Or should I just accept if he liked me he would have called and if I contact him I'm just going to look bad. Do guys think it's flattering when a girl calls after a date or does it seem pushy?
2007-10-08 16:40:33 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he said that we woud call then i would naturally let that happen because it is very possible he has just been busy and means to get around to it.. If he doesn't call back and you really want to see him again and he gave you his number than i would go for it the worst he can say is no.. which is better than not ever calling and left wondering forever what might have been
2007-10-08 16:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Catharine W. Dulaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about calling him then send him a text, just say "hi it's (your name)...how have you been?, I was just touching base and thought maybe if you would like to catch up again for coffee sometimes next week". that way your giving him some notice if he has other plans and by texting him you don't have to feel affraid if he says he doesn't think it would work out, if the later happens (which I hope it doesn't) then you can always text back saying that, that was o.k and you just wanted to let him know you had a great time on your date. Then leave it at that, he may change him mind. Any way maybe he's thinking about what to say to you and is taking his time, look I really don't think there is anything wrong by communicating with him first. Good luck and hope it works out for you.
2007-10-08 16:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st Century so I'm sure a guy won't think badly of you just b/c you tried contacting him first after a date.
Just casually call him, say hello and say you just wanted to see how he's been. Maybe he has a good reason for not being able to call. I'm sure you'll sense if there'll be a 2nd date or not based on this fone convo- then just go from there.
2007-10-08 16:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by CrankyWhenHungry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's what you do. Call him and tell him that your phone has been out of order for the last couple of days and you wanted to know if he called.....if he says he did....hang up immediately because he is deceptive and someone you cannot trust. If he says no, then just tell him what a great time you had at the date and you hope to see him soon and take it from there. Good Luck!
2007-10-08 16:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Hello to You! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you call you might look desperate...... but to stop wasting time and beating around the bush i would just call to get it over with. Your time is precious, so call if hes interested great if not then find someone else. Lifes a party and there is no time to slow down and wait
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2007-10-08 16:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make your flow! like the rest in life which you rather go with, you're able to be able to desire to go get it. infrequently do issues which you rather go with only fall into your arms. Plus if she's as surprisingly and severe-high quality as you're saying, somebody else has their eye on her and have confidence me, somebody else would be prepared to call her first. So whilst your waiting for her to call you, somebody else is already identifying on up the telephone to call her.
2016-12-14 11:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call rather than give up but, better than a call would be trying to run into him sometime when you really looked attractive. It works, believe me. Something made him ask you out to begin with. So, try again but try to get him to ask.
2007-10-08 16:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always try a text message or email if you have his email. That way he knows your interested and if he is great and he can call you or text/email back.. and if he's not its easier for him to let you down. I think its worth putting yourself out there though if you really liked him.
2007-10-08 16:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out so you aren't wondering but relax, you have nothing to lose. I would like it if a woman called after a date so I don't have to wonder.
2007-10-08 16:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rational Humanist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him a call. What do you have to lose? You either get a second date or you don't, at least you will know.
2007-10-08 16:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by lookingforanswers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋