girls what would you do?

Question

if you got freaked out at the club one time and then your boyfriend doesnt want to take you and says you cant handle it. its not fair cause i really want to go. what if he never takes me there again all because i acted up. i mean thats not right to punish me like that.

oh a woman kissed him and i ran out but still he shouldnt be going without me actully he shoudlnt go at all because if that happens everytime he goes some woman grabs him and kiss him then maybe we shoudlnt be going out anymore if he doesnt want me there its like his hiding something

i dont think my boyfirend deserves me anymore. he still wants to kiss around to f around we cant even go and have a good time. his dancing with other ladies i knwo its a dance but i think we are done we he goes wihtout me this friday ill return everything back to him and start a brand new life without him or maybe i should punish him a week to give him time to think of what he really wants. cause im tired of him playing and i really want to go because i dont drive and i coudlnt get there myself i dont think he deserves me anymore. and tomorrow im going to go look for jobs and he wait around all day but im never going to call him. i want him to think about what he wants.

Answer 1

I guess it would depend on what I did if I was in that situation. I mean - how did you act up? And what about going out to a different club or trying to make a compromise? I'd just explain to him why you feel how you do, and be honest with him and yourself.

Answer 2

I'm not sure what you mean by "freaked out". Did you kiss another guy or grope him? Your boyfriend can't "punish" you by not allowing you to go to a club. You can go without him, but if you can't control yourself when you're there, maybe you should stay at home. Or be single.

Answer 3

Well prove that you found out that you had a medical condition and now have received treatment.

If you freaked out for some stupid reason then I would understand his view point., You messed up and until you can prove yourself he doesn't have to take you if he doesn't' want to

Answer 4

Umm, I think he should give you a second chance, I don't really know much about your situation, but it seems like he acts like your parent or whatever... I mean just because he is telling you, no you can't go and blahblahblah

Just my opinion...

Answer 5

I would say the hell with him ...........no just kidding if i really love him i would say well cant we talk about it please i mean it was a one time thing (getting freaked out) and getting like that is just a natural reaction!

and no it is not right to punish you like that tell him that you feel that when he punishes you like that you feel like you should do it to him and that you feel you cant trust him and he cant trust you as a result to his reaction


hope this helps,,,,,,,,,,a girls intuition is always best

Answer 6

Go to the club alone if he won't take you.

However, if you "acted up" (I'm taking that as you made a huge scene), then he has every right to not want to take you. It obviously made him uncomfortable and not happy. So.... his choice. You can't make him do anything.

However, if you want to go - go alone.

Answer 7

Go with another guy (a "friend") because you can do anything you want. p.s. Your reaction may have been a warning from inside yourself that it is not a good environment for you.

Answer 8

well, first of all, what did u get freaked out about? but my first instinct is that its a pride thing. maybe he felt you embarrassed him. but that is wrong for him. if he likes you, really likes u, he wouldn't do that. talk to him.if that doesn't help i move on to greener pastures if u know what i mean

Answer 9

Possibitity:
it may not be a punishment.
-maybe you embarrassed too much
-he's meeting up with someone?
-he's about to dump you soon

Answer 10

if u wanna go have fun then go,u dont need him to be by ur side,take a really good friend or have a girls night there.