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His will shall be done on earth as it is in heaven etc.............######

2007-10-08 16:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

It is not a question of fair justice at all unless they were murdered and the killer caught and punished. You didn't say how the deaths happened but many deaths are because of mankind and things we do such as someone not paying attention to their driving, or even something like a war somewhere in the world.

you have my condolences. One thing that may give you some comfort is to go to memory-of.com and you can set up a memorial for those family members where others can leave messages and tell how much they miss the 5 that died.

2007-10-08 16:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0 0

Speaking from my own near death experience - it is wonderful on the other side. There are not words to describe it. Those passing over, dying, etc are in a great place and space. It is us who are still here that mourn their passing and miss them, because we don't have them physically here to relate to. Our learning and lessons come from their leaving and what we learn because of their deaths. They haven't left us. Close your eyes and picture them how you remember them. Then communicate with them, ask them whatever questions you want. Tell them whatever you want. You're not making it up, you are communicating with them. Just do it and see if you feel differently after that. The great thing is you can do this whenever you wish.

God isn't about suffering and injustice at all. We just have a hard time understanding how all of this works. God loves us always, no matter what. God does not love us any less, regardless of what we do or don't do. God's love is unconditional.

2007-10-08 16:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by cwald888 3 · 0 0

The Bible tells us that God blesses the just and the wicked. but it also tells us that there will be a final accounting where the just will get their reward and be taken to heaven and the wicked will be burned up in hell.

Finally the Bible tells us that:
Isaiah 55:9 As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.
This is God talking, He is saying that just because we don't understand there is still a reason, and it is a good one.
Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.

Faith is continuing to believe this even when it seems extreemly hard.

My condolences, peace and blessings to you.

Cat

2007-10-08 16:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by CatKween 2 · 0 0

I'm so very sorry for your loss upon loss. How tragic for you. It is so hard to say goodbye to people we love-- it always seems too soon.

It's understandable that you would have anger and rail against God about this - that's ok. God is there with you, even through that. Sometimes this won't be evident until time passes and you look back, and only then recognize the ways in which God's grace helped you.

I hope that you will find a grief counselor so that you can find ways of coping with your losses -- this is too much to carry by yourself.

Again, my deepest condolences to you.

2007-10-08 16:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

God doesn't kill satan does, Jesus said this in the gospel of John. So why does God allow it? Because God gave authority to Adam over the earth and Adam gave it to satan. If God forcibly takes away that authority from satan, God then would be evil by breaking the covenant He made with Adam. However there is good news, He has a plan of redemption to end the authority of satan and that plan is almost done. We need to trust God and thank Him for giving us some help while satan is in charge of the world at this time.

2007-10-08 16:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Doma 5 · 0 0

I know this may sound not so caring but it is. We are born to die. Nobody is going to live forever on Earth. It is very hard to deal with death, let alone several at a time. The thing is though, it was their time to go, whether it was by accident, by sickness, or whatever. It was their time and we all have one. Don't feel like they are really gone. I lost a good friend last year in a terrible dirt bike accident and sometimes I can feel like he's around. I lost my dad by suicide many years ago but I have felt him close by all those years. Besides, you'll see them again.

2007-10-08 16:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Que bella 3 · 0 0

I'm really sorry for your loss. It doesn't matter how close or how far apart you are, a loss is a loss and it hurts. My family went through a spate of deaths and it was terrible for everyone. I was a kid at the time, but it impacted me too and made me begin to think that that was the way life was supposed to be.
Sometimes life is this way and you lose a number of precious people at once. It doesn't make it fair but there's not much one can do about it.

2007-10-08 16:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by chick2lit 5 · 2 0

I am very sorry for your losses.

You must come to God and deal with him directly about this.

If I could speak without emotion, I would tell you that God is just and what He does is just regardless of how we feel about it. He never gave anybody guarantees about how long they would live and He has the full right to take any life at any time since He gave that same life.
This life is not the important life. It is just practice. If you are a daughter of God, you will spend eternity with your loved ones, and this time you're separated will be forgotten.

That is the truth, but what is also true is that your heart is going to be hurting and you need to grieve and let yourself grieve. God knows you're hurting. You have to trust that He has reasons why He does things.

Take your heart to Him. Tell Him how hurt you are. How angry you are. Don't hide yourself from Him.

2007-10-08 16:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Wiseacre 2 · 3 1

I'm sorry that you have experienced so much loss. But God is either nonexistent or unknowable, life is not fair, and true justice is an unattainable ideal, like perfection.

2007-10-08 16:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1 0

It was up to those who died to complete whatever their soul mission was here. When that's done, they leave, it's time to move on. Only they and God know when that is, and how it will happen. I personally believe that we ourselves each choose what our mission here is, and also I believe we choose the time that we will die and even the way it will happen. Before we are born into this (or any) lifetime. .

I know it sucks, I've lost over a dozen close friends in the last ten years myself.

2007-10-08 16:14:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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