I had a really good DAY. and then someone came home and was negative for the rest of the night. JUST TOTALLY PUT ME IN A DOWN MOOD! How can I shake it? What can I do to allow God to keep my SPIRIT intact and not discouraged?
p.s. this is a very serious question for me; any helpful suggestions is greatly appreciated.
2007-10-08 15:50:33 · 18 answers · asked by 100% ♥Creole♥ 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just keep praying..... prayer is always a good thing. If you are feeling really down then also try going to church. I always feel totally at peace there. Everyone who is there is looking for the same sort of thing I am and not trying to bring negativity to anyone else......
*hugs*
2007-10-10 10:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray that God will give you the strength to help you stay positive and loving, especially in trying times like that. Then read your Bible as you listen to some soft music and relax a little until you have calmed down.
You have to realize that others don't have to affect your mood unless you let them so once this has happened, get closer to God and let Him help you through it. He's always there for your call :)
2007-10-08 22:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to realize that god has nothing to do with this, or with anything else; you must assume the total responsibility for your own welfare. This may appear to be a substantial burden if you believe that you have been relying on help from a deity, but in fact it is not: it is simply recognizing a reality that has existed all along. That being done, you can then use your intellect to deal with the realities of the situation.
2007-10-08 22:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spiritually: Forgive that person! And thank God that you have been forgiven! Ask Jesus to help you and I think you will really feel a weight lifted off of you.
Logically: Tell the person exactly what happened and how it made you feel. You have the right to be treated with respect.
But it could all be a misunderstanding --perhaps that person had a bad day and simply took it out on you.
Have a WONDERFUL evening - I hope it all works out.
2007-10-08 22:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know this is not an easy answer to hear, but I have to say it: The best request you can make is, "Father, please help me be more like Jesus." The purpose of our faith is not to find peace in this world, how many of the apostles or saints found peace in this world? The best way to remain encouraged in your Christian journey is to realize this early on. When we truly seek to love God with our heart, and all our mind, and all our soul, we are compelled to live lives of holiness and to become more like Jesus. In so doing, we are no longer troubled by things of this world, because our treasure, and hence our focus, is no longer in this world.
2007-10-08 23:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by stevieboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Galatians 5:1- It is for freedom that Christ set us free. Stand firm,then, and do not let yourselves be burdened by a yoke of slavery.
If this burden is too heavy for you, lay it down and ask God to hold it for you. Remember for this very moment how much you are loved!! Please don't let what is bringing you down own you. Forgive this person, that does NOT mean reconcile.
It means : Although I don't agree with you, I release you from controlling my feelings. I am free.
2007-10-08 23:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best answer that I can offer to you is to pray to God that He will give you the revelation of His Word and that also He will give you the ability to apply it to everyday life and to keep praying that He will do this for you everyday after you have chosen to serve Him with you whole heart . The key this is to read and pray daily .
2007-10-08 23:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray some Psalms to God. Let Him lead you through His Word.
2007-10-08 22:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by †ServantofGod† 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Im only 12 but ill try to answer as best as i can ok? ok, when i am discouraged i like to read the Bible. It really lifts my spirits! Or Pray to Him about your discouragements. hope it helps!
Michaela Q
2007-10-08 22:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Michaela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can isolate yourself, that might be best. Pour your heart out to God and hand your burden over to him. Leave it with him. It may sound too simple but it really does work, for me anyway.. I usually slip into the shower so I know I'll be alone.
*hug* God bless. :)
2007-10-08 22:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋