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Question

My sister adopted a VERY scared dog from the Animal shelter about 3 months ago, well it would snap at everyone and my sister would smack it on the nose so it was scared of her. now it's attached to me,it follows me EVERYWHERE. now she doesnt want it and she wants to get rid of it she said she can since "she paid for it" my mom said it's upto her too since she paid for it. i love this dog sooo much. she's a jack russell terrier. what do i do?

My sister is 13 im 16 .

Answer 1

If your sister paid for it then you could offer to reimburse her for the cost. It sounds as if your dog may have been abused before arriving at the shelter and if so, your house with your sister smacking it may not be the best environment for your pup, not to mention your dog seems to be at least slightly Human Agressive which sometimes happens with abused animals but is something that should never be tolerated in ANY breed. You need to look into a trainer/behaviorist and those are expensive. Weigh all the pros and cons extensively before making this decision. Good luck.

Answer 2

Hi,
I just want you to know that our Jack Russell was a rescue doggie when we got her at 5 months old. She had been abused and was afraid of a lot of things, but the Jack Russell book that we got said that they are very smart and need a lot of patience but that they make devoted pets. They also need a lot of play and walking time as they are a high activity breed.

We did everything, and went to obedience training--and she has turned out to be the love of our lives. She follows us all over the house, tells us when she needs water or go out and can do all sorts of tricks. She's nine years old now.

My POINT is, please be the one to rescue this little guy, it has already begun to bond to you because you are giving it what it needs--it will repay you many times over. Just give your sister the money, if she is the one who actually paid for the dogs adoption--or see if she will trade you for something of yours that she really likes. Once the dog is yours, make sure that your sister has as little contact as possible with it.

Answer 3

She should not smack the dog. It is a self-defeating training technique. She will never get the results she is looking for. Usually people who smack animals are venting their own aggression.

Give her a copy of "How to be your dog's best friend" You can get a used copy on Amazon for a few bucks. These people live and breathe dog training. If her eyes are not opened, she will not change even if you bought the dog from her. If you are in the same house, all you can do is help as best as you can. Work toward the dog's best interests.

They are large dog specialists, but the techniques are basic and applicable to any dog.

Answer 4

Maybe you should have a "heart to heart" discussion with your sister about it. If the dog has developed a liking with you, it would be a big pity to just get rid of him just because your sister said she was the one to buy him. Lets be fair to the dog, just as we would be to people. Give the dog a break and he would deserve that little bit of happiness being with a person he likes (you). Treat the dog like a human being . I have an Akita and I did invest money to acquire him. He is now 2.7 years old and I love him dearly. I treat him more than just a dog and I will do everything in my power to keep him safe and happy. One thing about dogs, even in your worst moods, your pet is ready to be there by your side trying to make you happy. Good luck!

Answer 5

If you think you want to keep the dog, why not give your sister her money back and then the dog is yours.

I hate to see these poor animals just bounced around like they are just some piece of property without feelings. This poor dog was already a frightened mess when your sister was given charge of it. Then she continued to abuse it by smacking it's nose and not really working with the dog to overcome it's fears but only adding to them. Now she just wants to dump it and let it die or let it become some elses problem.

Answer 6

You should buy the dog from your sister and get the ownership papers. She's too young and obviously too immature to have a dog with issues.

I would be somewhat concerned if the dog is going to remain in the same house however. Your little sister has abuse problems of her own and I'm not sure the animal would be in the most nurturing environment, but that would have to be your decision.

Answer 7

Why should you even have to pay for it? Just as if your sister had made a bad purchase, say, for like, a purse, that she then spills juice all over, she can't just GIVE IT BACK.

Just take the dog from your sister, and don't pay her a single cent. She's too young for a dog obviously, anyway, and she shouldn't be hitting it.

Answer 8

Is she giving it back to the animal shelter? If so, you can go adopt it when she gives it back, and it will be your dog. If your mom is allowing her to give it back, there isn't much you can do, unless your sister is willing to give him and all the responsibility to you.

The dog was probably abused prior to being owned by your family. Proper training and some lovin' would help him become comfortable with your family. Maybe your sister isn't ready to take that task. I suggest talking to her to see if you can take the dog. Can you afford to care for the dog if it became soley yours?

Answer 9

Offer to pay her for the dog, if the fact she 'paid for it', is all she cares about.

She should've really learned how to properly train a dog, before adopting one, though. They're a lifelong commitment, they shouldn't be forced to go from place to place. It's not like your mom can get rid of your sister, just because she's not perfect......it shouldn't be that way for animals either.

Answer 10

You could pay half the price of the dog since you love it. Im not sure if you can go to the shelter and get a refund.