what does he want?

Question

like basically tell me they wanna b w/ me and like i'm gunna have their kid but they w/ sum 1 else and have another kid w/ them so at one time they wanted 2 b w/ them, but now i'm supposed 2 believe that he wants 2 b w/ me? help i'm so confused? oh and no mean answers please :)

he was dating some one else at the time that he got me pregnant and now he's acting like he wants 2 b/ w me hope thats clear!

Answer 1

Obviously this guy is not a treat to begin with. It's unfortunate that he's pretty much tricked you and here you are.
OK, first thing's first. Are you going to have this baby? Are you going to keep this baby?
Now, as far as this guy goes, who cares what he does. He's a fool and was just playing around with you. It's sad, but that is what it is. But you need to move on. He doesn't know what he wants to do, going back and forth from you and the ex-girlfriend. That just tells me he's an idiot.
I would leave him alone. He has ALREADY given you his final answer of him not knowing what he wants. OH, trust me, he'll be you as some point. Don't do it. Not unless you want another child.
If you can, start over your life w/ this new life, OR a new life to a family who wants (and can take care of) a new baby.
This is not easy and you will have to do some thinking and TONS of planning.
I would also find support for yourself. If that means your family, a friend, or even a support group for single moms. Surround yourself with people who want to be with you and have your best interest at heart, that's what you want. Also, decide if you want this yahoo in your child's life.
I would also have you check out local resources for everything you're going to need.
OH, but I'm curious, is this your first child?
Anyway, good luck to you. And please, keep us posted.

Answer 2

so basically he said he wanted to be with you, but he didn't make any real commitment like an engagement ring or a wedding or even move in with you, so you got pregnant thinking it was forever?

and then he got someone else pregnant?

i think if he got someone else pregnant while he was with you that he is not interested in having a real relationship, it is just a line. sorry you fell for it. i hope you are able to move past him and take care of yourself and your baby.

if he comes back around being all sweet, don't take him back. he sounds like a jerk.

Answer 3

A girl once said to a guy:

"You said you loved me!"

He responded:

"I did at the time".

Place your time into your self. Focus on you. Be the person you look up to and he may see it. If he doesn't it is his loss. Most guys like that just run around. You have to take care of yourself. He will see that and respect it. If he doesn't his loss. Focus on your future as if he wasn't in it. Then you will have much more control over your destiny.

Answer 4

YOURE confused?... how the HELL are we supposed to understand what the FRICK you're saying.