I have a question, how is that someone gets mad over you writing them letters?

Question

I have a question, how is it that someone gets mad at you writing them letters, I mean I Have this auntie, a couple of weeks ago, she
Started going around pulling the cord out of The t.v. in the basement, so I started writing Her some notes about it, now granted there
Were nasty, she started when she tripped About me setting her clock for her in the house, during our blackout when it was raining
She picks a time when I'm sleep to say some
Smart *** comments to me, when I least
Expect it, and said whole bunch of mean
Stuff, but snapped at me as I can expect on
What I said in them letters, she is meanie
In disguise with her smart comments I wish
She would leave our house, she secretively
Mean and evil, when someone tells her stuff
And when they write her notes it's worst, just
Little smartie pants about everything, can you
Help me to deal with this year long situation?
It is affecting how I live and my spirit.

Answer 1

If you can attack her without being "mean" you'll accomplish alot more. Just be honest, don't make it more then it is, and speck from your heart. Writing her letters is a good start, now its time to confront her face to face, as long as you remember to stay away from being angery, mean, or disgusting with her, and jsut speck form that heart about the truth of what you see, you'll breck her in time. Its not easy being mean, hatful, vendictive, or cruel, so smacking her with righeous truth well breck her fast.... Try asking her questions about it, Like "I simply set the clocks after the black-out how can you be anger with me about that?" That doesn't make sense? Or "Why would you feel warted in pulling cords on the tv?" Yea at frist it doesn't sound like much, but when she tries to defend her behavior THEN you smack her down with the righteous truth, which I don't know because I don't know your situation as intimatly as you, but I'm more then sure she isn't justified in acting this way, call her on it....