I'm on my third year of university and joined the ROTC to finish my studies and go to the military. Can anyone tell me how to say it to my parents in a way that sounds good? I'm doing it because i want to serve , not for the money.
2007-10-08 11:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by Airbound Gabe 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Be relaxed and firm. Remember, you were man enough to make that decision, and you're man enough to stand by it. You did it, because you thought it was the right thing to do. They may be worried about you, but act like a man and they'll be proud.
2007-10-08 11:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just be truthful and tell them what you stated here. Of course nobody joins for the money, not even Officers. The number of hours you work will show you this. You aren't going into a 9-5 job. No matter what, they will be proud of your decision.
2007-10-08 14:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 08:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it something like this, I helped my cousin with this..
"Hey Mom, Dad, I have something to tell you. I have realized that I am living in the greatest country in the world. A country that protects me from any danger, a country that gives me freedom, and a country that I know will protect my future children. I really felt that I should give something back, so I joined the military.." something like that. I hope it helps, GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-08 13:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Titanium Bathtub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell them why you are joining even if even if they disagree with your decision and don't understand it.
Don't argue over it...keep a quiet calm tone.
They may never believe you are doing the right thing, but if your parents love you they will always be there for you.
2007-10-08 11:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Archer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk in the door singing "I'm in the Army now"
and " I'm doing it because I want to serve, not for the money"
GOOD FOR YOU!!!
2007-10-08 11:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jeffer777 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good for you. Good Luck
Parents will just have to deal with whatever you say
2007-10-08 11:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We KNOW that you're not doing it for the money....
Thank you.
2007-10-08 13:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by sirbobby98121 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you.
Just tell them that you always wanted to see Iraq.
2007-10-08 11:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋