You did not see your love for a whole year. You expected and hoped to see she/ he at the college homecoming, but she/he did not come.
Thank you very much.
2007-10-08 10:55:08 · 36 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
crushed on so many levels, for me it be a deal breaker. not to influence you but if my man did that to me i'd ask myself didn't he miss me? woulnd't he be excited to see me? i don't know my boyfriend plays football and it gone so much and it's really been a struggle in our relationship. I can't imagine being away for a year. I respect and envy you for being able to do it but I'd sure be hurt if he didn't come home
2007-10-09 08:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by bvftbl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, move on. Long distance relationships don't work. He probably has someone, and didn't know how to tell you. A year is a long time, to go without physical contact. It's ok, you'll find someone else. Take a hint and don't call him. Let him call you, if he tries to string you along with some stupid excuse. Let him know, your over it. Even if you aren't, cause this could go on forever. All the staying in touch stuff, calling on the phone or net. He should be a man and tell you what's up. You should get your own closure. Leave it, start focusing on you. Someone will come along, if your pleasant and confident. Good Luck
2007-10-08 11:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tarrimarie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did they say they were going to be there?
I am prone to being disappointed if I don't see my love when I think I'm going to. It can create some bad feelings so I try to be clear about what I think the plan is so there's little confusion.
If you got stood up at Homecoming then you have a right to be hurt. I don't know of anyone who would appreciate that.
2007-10-08 10:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Emperor T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset. Ask the person what they were doing that night. If they had a valid excuse ie "My cat died" "I got into an accident" Let them off the hook
If you expressed interest in them showing but never said, "will you please come to homecoming?" then this person might just be clueless.
If you asked the person to show and they just would not show, I would want too beat them up. I'd be pissed!
2007-10-08 10:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cheri H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be VERY, Very upset. If I didn't see my husband for a whole year, I don't know what I would do. I know when my husband went away for a long weekend once, I missed him like crazy.
2007-10-09 13:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy of 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would feel like some justice is due. Whatever that is to your liking. Than walk away w/ a smile & not look back knowing Im not the one who lost out.
2007-10-08 10:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Bagmoore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would at first be devastated - but then tell myself that things happen for a reason. If he didnt show up theres a reason for it, and because of it I will become a better person for it. Remember the Garth Brooks song, thank god for unanswered prayers? He's right!
2007-10-08 10:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very disappointed, but if I wanted to see them that much I would contact them, and make a date to see each other.
2007-10-08 11:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very hurt. I would talk to them and see if I could tell if he/she still loved me. Then act accordly. But remember that distance can do that so I would be hurt, but not angry if our relationship was over.
2007-10-08 10:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that they had a good reason for not being there! but prob i would feel very upset they weren't there but i suppose it doesn't mean im never going to see them again!
2007-10-08 11:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by gell1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋