it can be religious or just random! I don't mind! no I'm not depressed ,just a little shook up about someone! I loved him sooo much and now he is gone! - forever!!!!!!!!!
today is the day of the death of my soulmate! mowed over by a truck driver not paying attention! we loved each other since grade school! through Highschool and one day he was standing at a red light ,waiting for his turn and in a split moment he was just gone! I never loved another man again!
not even my exhusband! yup so there you are! tough day for even the loud, mouthy slave! HEY - I have feelings too you know!
do you ever feel sad and blue even if it is about something that has been a long time ago???????
2007-10-08 10:16:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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i'm truly sorry for your loss...i can relate...been thinking about the first girl i ever loved...i lost her to cancer when we were in middle school...once in awhile it just 'hits me'...we used to argue over who was better-she liked the monkees and i was a beatles freak. sometimes i'll hear 'daydream believer' and find myself singing along, and i just know that if she can see me, she's just busting a gut laughing at me...i can almost hear her yelling, "gotcha!"
it's times like that when i realize that real love never dies
'and now abide faith, hope, and love, these three; but the greatest of these is love'
feel free to contact me if i can help in any way...
spike
2007-10-08 10:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by spike missing debra m 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Funny, I found out like 2 days ago that my first love ( this was 18 years ago now) who was a big part of my younger years died 8 years ago. I had not talked to her in years but it has been a very nostalgic weekend. Even worse she was a mother of 3 and died because of others stupidity.
She went out with friends, had to much too drink and went to lay down in the back seat of her friends car. Her friend the DD for the evening ended up drinking anyway. She ran a red light and decided to run from the cops. They wrapped the car around a telephone pole while my ex still slept, she was killed instantly and never even had a chance or knew what happened.
She died at 28, the driver got probation, sometimes it's too bad there is no afterlife.
I'll send you all the positive thoughts I can, hope your day gets better.
(((slave)))
2007-10-08 10:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gawdless Heathen 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about today.
(((((HUG)))) for you.
They say that there is no set amount of time to grieve and certain things will trigger sad memories. It's okay to feel blue.
May I make a suggestion? Can you think about what you liked best about your loved one and use this as a day to remember the things that were so special about him?
I understand what this is like because I had a friend who was killed by a drunk driver at 9:30 in the morning. It happened 9 years ago and I still miss my friend (we took breaks together at work). Whenever I hear a certain song from her funeral, it reminds me of her death. But when those sad feelings come, I try to remember the special things about her that made her such a wonderful friend.
It will be okay, I promise.
2007-10-08 11:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Searcher 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry! I can't even imagine the pain you are going through because I've never lost anyone who I was extremely close to. However, I can offer you my sympathy and some encouragement:
7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
~Philippians 4:7 (New International Version)~
11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
~Jeremiah 29:11 (New International Version)~
2007-10-08 11:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that =( I hope you find peace even in your sadness.
Everyone has feelings... even the tough. And we all handle those feelings in different ways.
Of course I feel sad and blue at times, even over things that have happened years ago. I just remember the pleasant things about the people I have lost and hold on to those memories rather than focus on how I have lost the person.
2007-10-08 10:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by River 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yup. I feel blue and dark some days for almost no reason at all. Unfortunately I cannot simply pacify your problems with words, but I just write in my journal and let it all out. It may not be the type of answer you are looking for, but it really helps me.
I also try to surround myself with people I love, like my friends. then I go to the gym. I good workout always makes me feel better and helps me to forget about things for a while.
2007-10-08 10:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by alana 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
((((HUG))))I'm so sorry Slaveof12Gods. yes, I feel very sad and nostalgic for things in the past and loved ones that I've lost as well sometimes. It helps me appreciate the people in my life now though and to try not to take them for granted and to squeeze all the joy I can from life. I hope you find love again, keep your heart open to the possibilities. It may not be the same love you had but each person and relationship is unique.
2007-10-08 10:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Zen Pirate 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Losing a loved one is difficult, it's like losing your heart, a part of you is missing. Mourning is a natural process, time heals everything, do you think your loved one would want you to live your life to the fullest, and be stronger because of it?...yes they would, they would be dissapointed if you didn't, he will always have a place in your heart, so actually you didn't lose anything, he replaces it with memories, and yes, I have felt depressed and blue, everyone has....God bless, and live strong.
2007-10-08 10:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss, and am sending you lots of love. We may not know each other, and we may not share the same view on religion, but we belong to the human race.
I know what it's like to lose someone I love...I've done it many times. It does get easier, even if the pain doesn't fade completely.
I still miss my dad horribly, and it's been sixteen years.
2007-10-08 10:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey now he is still with you every step that you take. I lost my first Wife due to an automobile accident. I know that her presence is around me day and night. I feel her comfort as I lie in bed at night. It is comforting. Memories are what I hold dear and close to my heart. They will never fade or discolor.
I truly believe that you can only have one soul mate within your life. I go on in life that is what she would wish for me to do. I travel without fear knowing that she lie near.
Peace........................
2007-10-08 13:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋