I'm not very attractive... i'll admit that right now. i've had a girlfriend when i was 14 and it lasted for two years but then she cheated on me and broke up with me for a much better looking guy. i havn't gotten any female attention since that. i have one friend that is a girl but she has a bf and he is my best friend so i wouldn't EVER ask her out. any other girl i ask out (there's only been two... i get so nervous and i'm shy) says no. What should i do?
2007-10-08 09:22:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 18....
2007-10-08 09:27:53 · update #1
You can go to a good local church, and join their single ministry. That's where I made all of my friends. I love them all, and they love me too! We get along so well, and we always solve each others problems. We are here for each other. None of us drink, smoke, and do drugs. Maybe one day, one of them will be your wife. Good luck and God bless!!!
2007-10-08 09:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Patito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attractive or not can be an issue for u, but for either way u can have a better chance by having a great personality, being confident of yourself, etc. Appearance is important but girls won't look for someone good looking, but brainless and arrogant. Try to show to the girls who u r and that u care for them, if that can't get u a date at least u r making some new friends and who knows what happens later.
Ps. Maybe u don't consider yourself attractive, but maybe for some girls u r, so don't be so negative about the appearance or u can get very obsess about it. Try to cheer up and show some smiles, it can light up the day of a girl.
2007-10-08 09:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by jennie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your attitude is completely wrong. Sure if you think your ugly and no one likes you arent going to meet anyone. Girls can see right through that if someone is unsure of themself. Secondly, The only way you get better at anything is practice. Throw yourself out there and talk to woman, even if you're nervous. You dont even have to ask them out, just get comfortable being around them, then sooner or later the right one will come around.
2007-10-08 09:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by j g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a thought try not looking for one! -- it's not like buying a house!
and if you don't love yourself for who you are why should anyone else!
be proud of who you are!
EVERYONE is attractive one way or another! Trust me! you dont even have to see it just believe it!
who knows maybe you wont find what your shouldn't be looking for in a long time! if so just worry about you! and how you can achieve tangable goals that don't involve doing it!
I do wish you the best!
stop looking okay! it works unless it's one of those thing you got to do to beleive! but i tell you it works oh not over night either!
took me 3 years i was doing self research and soul searching guess who just popped up in my inbox! My current lover of 2 years! and longest relationship! we will marry one day after i'm debt free - I don't want to go into something with all my baggage so we are going to wait!
my problem wasn't finding people it was keeping them close to me! i don't have comment issues either maybewanted that too much but i stopped -- soul searched really i forgot about not having someone ( a few nights i would cry) but over 95% of my time was how can i help myself!
2007-10-08 09:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have any interests that involve social events then go to them. If that's sports go to game and try to impress a girl with your knowledge. That's just an example, for my boyfriend it was roleplaying games and music. But finding someone with a similar interests is always good because they'll understand you, I bet youre probably better looking than you give youself credit for, too. eliminate that from your dilemma and you'll already better at getting dates.
good luck!
2007-10-08 09:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is to start believing in you. Don't keep focussing on what you construe as your 'bad points' No one is perfect and there are many 'unattractive' people who have healthy lasting and meaningful relationships. You need to have a broad range of interests so you have someting to talk about, other than your disappoints. Above all don't become desperate - as there is nothing less likely to work.
2007-10-08 09:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friends, maybe they can introduce you to some of their girl friends. Also, keep in mind that old saying "Guys fall in love with their eyes, girls fall in love with their ears." I believe that to be very true, so if you are an honest, romantic person you will find some one that will look beyond the physical.
Good luck to you.
2007-10-08 09:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chulis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look... looks arent everything... i admit im in love with a guy and im way out of his league.. want to know the secret to catch a girls attention? being funny. i only love guys who will make me laugh... other wise im not interested and i move on so just be funny. it doesnt matter on the looks really...
xoxo-myia
2007-10-08 09:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. You'll get one. I don't have a bf, but I know I'll get one. Just don't do anything but flirt.
2007-10-08 09:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may hire a detective in the beginning. then stalk her like loopy . i advise hacking into her e mail yet it takes. then she would be able to fall for you lower back and youll make candy love. i did this and my nuts harm for a week.
2016-10-06 08:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by mccleery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋