How can i persuade my parents to let me go to the soccer party.?

Question

Every year once soccer season is done there is a huge party. I really really want to go but i doubt that my parents will let me.

see, last april i lied and had 2 parties and got caught. i was grounded for 2 months and havn't really been able to do anything much since then. its been half a year already. my mother still does not trust me at all at all as i found that out yesterday. and i'm really desperate to go to this upcoming party. i just don't know how to ask them.

help!

Answer 1

When you ask permission to go to the party, tell them everything you know about it as to location, time it starts, time it ends, who the chaperons will be, and when you promise to be home. Go to them with a nice attitude and present your request so nicely that they could hardly say no.

Answer 2

Get prepared before you talk to your parents. Figure out what you will do in return for being allowed to go to the soccer party (help around the house, fix dinner, etc.). If you don't hold up your end of the bargain, you don't go to the party (and no sneaking out).

Find out who will be chaperoning the party and offer to get the phone numbers for those chaperoning so your parents can call them if they have any questions.

Suggest that one of your parents volunteer to chaperon (that's the penalty for doing something you shouldn't have done).

You may not have to barter with your parents, but if you do, it's best to be prepared in advance. Be mature about the discussion. If your parents don't give you permission, don't start whining like a baby or yelling like a major brat. Let them know that if you knew they would NEVER trust you again, you would have NEVER thrown those parties.

Good luck and try to make better decisions.

Answer 3

You can ask, but frankly I wouldn't if I was your mom. You obviously don't see anything wrong with what you did and while you were a bit inconvenienced, you are not concerned that you lied to your parents. Your parents trusted you, and you wasted their gift of trust. This is the consequences of your actions. You could talk to them and set a time to be home and make sure you are ten minutes early, if they let you. Good luck and clean up your act.