ok well my x and i r close like frinds and we still hav really strong feelings 4 each other an all but its awkward.....well a few weeks ago we wer talkin on aol and he sent me a picture of himself.....and well ya watever......now he wants me to send him my pix....should i?? and duz he still lik me or is he just usein me to meet his needs???
2007-10-08 07:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-08 07:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You examine how YOU feel about sending those pics if you are resistant in any way, don't do it. Since you asked this question I sense that you don't want that type of relationship and you don't know what he will do with those pics once he has them right? Stand your ground you are maturing anything that makes you feel awkward don't do you will always regret not thinking it through.
If he asks why be honest and tell him you are following internet safety guidelines that should be enough for him and as your friend, he should respect your choice.
2007-10-08 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still likes you or he would not have sent the picture. By all means send him one and see what he does then. It doesn't sound like he is using you, if aol is the only contact you have had. My definition of being used would involve physical contact.
2007-10-08 14:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past is past.. Obviously if you keep on talking, the feelings will stay... but I don't think you guys should be sending pics and ****.. thats immature. If he likes you, he will ask you out but asking for your pictures doesn't make it look like he wants anything serious! He probably just wants to bang you.
2007-10-08 14:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth it could be either or. i have had feelings for my ex's after i broke up, and i wanted to get back with some, others i juss wanted sex, depends on him. perhaps you should ask him. word to the wise, ex's are ex's for a reason. people sometimes do changes, but most of the time they dont...
2007-10-08 14:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by calvinwright508 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send him a picture of yourself, that only makes it that much easier for him to host it on a website that promotes prostitutes and such. i would continue to be friends with him, but if he is your ex, there is obviously a good reason you two broke up in the first place. =)
2007-10-08 14:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by shadowsurfer911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure theres nothin wrong with sending pictures u guys r friend, so whyn ot as far ad wanting to get back with u, you would only really know if u asked him about it
2007-10-08 14:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♡♥ !Ð3ΔL ♡♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he just send u a picture of himeself naked thats weird and i wouldnt send one back becuase he just wants to meet his needs or show it to his freinds.
2007-10-08 14:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by tom bud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just using me to meet his needs of carouse then he show the pics at school and tells every one that he f=== you
2007-10-08 14:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by temmy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like using you sorry dear
2007-10-08 14:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋