I don't know what to do this guy wants to have sex with me and I think I love him but I'm not sure, I'm only thirteen!
2007-10-08 07:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by Bree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Defintely not now! You are only 13. You should wait until you are older. Sex doesn't always=love! Remember that!
2007-10-08 07:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OH MY GOSH SWEETHEART! you are only 13 years old! You have the rest of your life to have sex, and believe me, sex is VERY overrated. It feels good at the time, but afterwards you feel guilty, or at least i did. Its not worth the 2 minutes of pleasure for a lifetime of regret. I know you've heard a million times to wait until marriage, and that's really a good thing to go by. Every single girl i have EVER met has regretted not waiting until marriage, including me. I'd give back every hour of my life to have my virginity back and wait until marriage! I know in school there's the pressure to be cool, but im gunna tell you straight up, the good guys do NOT like girls who sleep around. You have no idea what true love and heartbreak is. You're experiencing puppy love right now, and i know you think its "real" and whatnot, but you're 13. I would focus more on friends and school then having sex and having kids. You do not want to add your name to the LONG list of single teenage mothers! IF you gave that boy your virginity, not only would he eventually, if not immediately dump you for someone else, but you would feel humiliated and used. He's a guy. He's horny, and he probably sits at home watching porn all afternoon. Don't let him use you for a piece of butt. I lost mine at 17 because i wanted to know what it felt like. I wasn't impressed!!! Please darling. save yourself for the right guy. you'll be glad you did.
2007-10-08 14:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Clarice H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey you are wayyyy!!!!!!!!! To young. My advice, I lost mine early and you can never ever get it back. If a guy wants you to give it up at thirteen he has no respect for you and you are not emotionally ready for that kind of relationship. Been there done that. I look back at my past and wonder how do I explain it to my daughter or husband how I made such choices. You need to realize that you do have someone out there right now created just for you that is going through his own life's circumstances before the day he meets you. Wait honey, absolutely wait till you get married.
2007-10-08 14:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG you are 13! Wait 5 more years to be sure. There is so much that goes with sex. You should wait until you can afford to pay for a child should you become pregnant.
2007-10-08 14:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Save it for your wedding day, believe me this guy and all the other ones you meet will want to have sex with you, and not remember your name in a week. Don't start until you understand the full meaning of love.
2007-10-08 14:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ASAP. Its a superficial world out there these days, and you'll only get a guy if you are either "Smoking Hott" and by that I mean 9-10, or the guy thinks you give it up.
2007-10-08 14:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jon R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
13 is a little young, girl. If you don't feel ready for it, don't do it. That first time should be special, and you should want it. If there's any doubt in your mind, don't do it, because you'll only regret it.
2007-10-08 14:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till ur marrieddddddddddddd, the way a real woman is supposed to.
2007-10-10 02:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFTER you turn 18.
AFTER you get married.
NOT at thirteen. You will regret it.
2007-10-08 14:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definetly not at 13! i would say at the very least 18! and definetly if you arent sure if u love him! dont even think aobut it if you arent sure you love him...thats like top priority
2007-10-08 14:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dollface;) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋