I get the feeling my boyfriend is gonna break up with me?

Question

The problem is I really love him and don't wanna break up. What can I do to help nudge him in the other direction?

We have been dating two months

Answer 1

Nothing. #

Answer 2

you can't really sweetheart. My bf and I just split last week and I didn't want to break up either. I'm still in love with im. THe thing with guys is once they've made up their mind they are going to break up with you, they are going to do it. Now it just depends on afterwards if they reailze they made a mistake or not. It sucks and it hurts and you'll be angry, sad, frustrated, and worst of all your self esteem is going to go down the drain but you know what.... it might be for the best and who knows if you ar mature about it maybe later down the line you guys iwll get back together or whatever. don't hound him... we all know guys secretly also pms so maybe it's somethign entirely different. Sit him down and talk to him. Dont' probe to much just say you've been acting a little distant ( insert your own words here) just wanted to see if you were okay? That's innocent enough and not too much like you are freaking out or whatever.

Answer 3

You need to talk i dont think you should try and nudge him in the other direction if hes not in the same place as you then there is not much point being together!

Answer 4

Well, sometimes people aren't meant to be together...buuuuuuut.... if you really feel you can make something special out of it then show him! You should know yourself well enough to know your good qualities so this would be the time to flaunt it. Think back to who you were when you two got together, thats the person who got his attention and now you have to become the person he wants to stay with.

Don't mean to get all sisterhood-y lol but think about it, if he doesn't seem to show you the same attention or appreciate the person you are then is he worth holding on to?

Hope things go well with you and your boyfriend x

Answer 5

Wow! Usually if it seems like they are gonna break up with you then there mind is already made up. It has happend to me a few times...by the same jerk and if I had it to do over again I would have broken up with him first, even though I still loved him I would have felt better by doing it first.

Maybe not the best advice but that's just how I feel.

Good Luck and stay strong

Answer 6

Talking to him other than asking complete strangers who have no idea who you and your boyfriend are for advise. But here's some advise anyways.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Theres a billion people out there, and your boyfriend is not one of a kind, there are millions like him and millions more who are even better so chalk it up to life experience and move on.

You sound like a teenager so just break up with him before he breaks up with you and get your swerve on with someone else.

Answer 7

Awww c'mon, if you force the issue he's only gonna run away faster. try some love and tenderness and if that doesn't work try the door and find a joe that is worth you attention. Soon as you stop showing some attention then he'll come running and if he doesn't throw that flounder back and catch a fish thats worth keeping.

Answer 8

Honestly if you have been going out for a while then you can just explain to him how you feel and go from there. If you haven't then do some fun things or things you and him like to keep the relationship fun and entertaining. All you can do is hope for the best.

Answer 9

I understand that you don't want to break-up but since you have the feeling that he's going to do it anyway. Break-up with him first. Beat him to the punch.The hurt won't be as bad. You will feel on top.

Answer 10

He probably has already made up his mind. If he breaks up with you, it isn't the end of the world. As hard as it may be, just move on.

Answer 11

Zippo