Okay me and my mom have had a rocky relationship.There has been times when I have stopped talking to her before.The 1 main thing that I dont agree on is her still been with her husband after he molested me has a child.So what made me stop talkin to her this time was,while my daughter was visitin my mom(my stepfather wasn't to be there)I came to pick her up,she called the police on me.She told the police that I was unfit parent!I couldn't believe it,and my stepfather was there.at the same time the police told me she smelled like she had been drinkin.Now because of a lawsuit I have with Inglewood police,the officer that came to the sence was 1 that was involed in my lawsuit.So the officer was goin 2 believe what my mother was sayin about my parent skills.I had 2 explain that my daughter is not to b in there with a child molester.Then did the police officer return my daughter. I told her you tryed to take my baby,U wont ever c my baby again.and its been 2 yr.
2007-10-08 06:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to ur mom about what. no offense but your mom is a friggin idiot fool for being with a man who molested her own daughter. then she calls the cops and says ur an unfit parent. the only one unfit is her. she shoudl be committed to a mental institue so i doubt theres any sense u could talk her into.
2007-10-08 06:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your messed-up mom out of your life. She picked her nutcase pedophile husband over your welfare a long time ago.
Don't EVER let them visit your daughter without you being present to protect her!
Actually, you need to make sure your daughter was not molested while you were away.
Listen, just because that is your mom, doesn't mean that you are stuck with her... more like that is the first hurdle you had to overcome in life.
Distance yourself and your kid from that lot! Move out of the area if you can, and leave no forwarding address, phone or anything else!
2007-10-08 13:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have reasons for your feelings. If you want to attempt to rebuild your relationship with your mother, try to. Just make sure that each time you see her it is just you and her. Don't bring your child, and let her know that you want it to be just her not her husband. Try to make it a public place, park, cafe, not at home, but if it is in public be prepared for a scene so coose wisely. Let her know that you want to rebuild the relationship. It is up to her to decide if she wants to work together. You can not force her to do anything so don't try to persuade her try to work around it. It will be hard, and you dont have to forgive at the moment, be the better person.
2007-10-08 13:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by kaleighcarin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother endanged your wellbeing as a child by keeping you around a child molester. She is now endangering your daughter by doing the same, and she is trying to endanger your relationship with your daughter by making accusations against your parenting. Mother or no, this is someone to AVOID!
2007-10-08 13:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Abigail 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance to her. Anyone who chooses to stay with a child molester over their own child should also be in jail. Forget her and move on with your life- she picked who was more important- HIM. And you don't need your baby around that!!
2007-10-08 13:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
let the torrential relationship rest while you pursue some counseling. after you work out your abuse, abandonment, neglect, issues maybe a positive relationship can reached with your mom. maybe not, in that case live anyway.
2007-10-08 13:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Voice of Reason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think i would even try, and do not ever leave your child with her again. i wouldn't take that chance.
2007-10-08 13:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. #
2007-10-08 13:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ruby S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋