My boyfriend had a baby from a previous realationship, she was 6 months old when her idit mother shook her and killed her. My boyfiend had a bond with that baby the minute he held her,and is not going through a depression phase is there anything me and my boyfriend can do to make our loss easier to deal with. It's not easy seeing him cry himself to sleep at night. And i want to make him feel like he can talk to me but he just lashes out at me and takes it out on me. Any advice?
2007-10-08 06:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Angel Dobson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
God, Angel that would make me cry. What a precious angel a little baby. Sorry for such a tragedy.
I really feel for him. Guys do grieve too. It's normal.
I guess be encouraging or supportive. Check out family counseling groups for a parent that has lost a child in this particular manner. He needs to go to one soon. As I cannot relate that much, this is my only suggestion.
Do you think, in the near future maybe he wants to have another child, by the both of you or adopt one? (just curious)
2007-10-08 07:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Did anyone ever file charges against the mother that killed that baby? That woman should never be allowed to breed again.
The second thing is that even though the baby is no longer in physical, she is still around. She is beyond anyone's ability to hurt or abuse her, and will not carry a long childhood of abuse into her next life with her. Perhaps she will come back as a subsequent child of his.
2007-10-08 07:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 80 365 days previous guy replaced into relationship an 80 365 days previous woman. They sit down on the bench for hours, with the lady conserving the previous mans dick, and doing not something. After some time the previous guy stopped seeing the previous woman. The previous woman found out that the previous guy replaced into relationship yet another previous woman of the comparable age, and doing the comparable element which they used to do. She confronted the previous guy "What does she have that I dont have? The previous guy replied "PARKINSONS"
2016-10-06 07:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to deal with the loss of a child all you can do is be there for him listen when he decides to talk and comfort when he is ready for it the loss of a child is devistating and if he isn't sure how to deal with it then suggest he go talk to someone who can help him through the depression. Love him and pray for his release of his frustations....
2007-10-08 06:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is something that he will have to get over in order to move on with his life. If he has pictures of the baby, perhaps setting up a memorial at memory of will give him a sense of peace to some extent. I will include a link to the site and you can look this over.
2007-10-08 06:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree he might need some proffesional help to get through this..... he should at least see his family doctor to start.
2007-10-08 06:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grief takes time. b glad he is grieving n give him time. don't push him into talking. just let him no ur there if he wants 2.
2007-10-08 07:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i feel for him , iguess it takes time and if he will let you talk to him remind him she is with god and she dont haved to feel hurt anymore, i will pray for him tell him to talk to someone even though men will not hardly do that but just let him know your their and it hurts you to , and to talk to you if he needs to. god bless your family.
2007-10-08 06:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go to counseling, he cant deal with this on his own.
2007-10-08 06:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋