Me and my ex-girlfriend talk every now and then and we get along really good and I think there may be a chance in the future for us to get back together. If she has told me that she misses me and a lot about our relationship, but isnt ready to give it another try yet, does she really want me back eventually or is she just playing games with me. Is it worth the effort or is the past in the past and should not be revisited?
2007-10-08 05:46:06 · 23 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With women we sometimes need time to figure out what we want. I think she does want you back but she needs time to get over whatever happened between you two, so that you can progress and leave the past in the past. It's worth the effort only if you want it. If you don't, don't waste your time.
2007-10-08 05:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend no. There was a reason for the split up, and when you do split up you remember all the good times. You forget the bad times, the hard times that you went through, but they'll be revisited when you start dating again. I'd leave her in the past, call it a good friendship and move on. Its a wierd feeling, knowing that she left you before and that it could just as easily do it again, and it makes it hard to move forward, looking over your shoulder all the time. HOpe this helps and good luck in either decision you make.
2007-10-08 05:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Otis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got together in our late teens then broke up in our early 20's. When we were 26 we started dating again, 2 years later we got married and we've been very happy ever since. Even when we were broken up we stayed in touch as friends and always had feelings for each other, but at the same time we both needed to grow in our own ways. I don't regret the time we were apart at all, I did a lot of things on my own that I wouldn't have been able to do if we had stayed together as did he. If you two are meant to be you'll come back together without even thinking about it.
2007-10-08 05:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I recently had a break up, we told each other we just weren't ready at that point, but we wanted to try again later in life. About four months of being just friends, we went on a date together, nothing official, just seeing if our feelings were still the same as before, then we went on a few more dates but never considered each other their lover, but now we are going out and it's great. Try that, take it slow, and see how it works. Ask her out as friends, then on a date.
2007-10-08 05:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gotten back with my ex and it was the worst decision I could have made. We ended up dating for 5 months and then broke it off. sometimes staying just friends is the best way to go. But if you do still have feeling for one another, stay friends for a bit to make sure things will still continue to work out in case you guys just recently broke up. but other wise, good luck and I wish you guys the best.
2007-10-08 05:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by the wonderer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you stand a brilliant threat of having back. and that i think of that's extremely liable for you to take it sluggish. curiously you have the two dealt with the subjects you had and even have much less rigidity and are greater effective than happy. So sure ! it could and could artwork out in case you the two only ease into it. meaning drowsing at the same time additionally. Wait some months in case you are able to. then you definately will comprehend its on account which you care approximately one yet another and its no longer surprisingly lots intercourse.
2016-12-14 11:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a relationship for 6yrs that was on again off again and we aren't together now. This may not be the case w/ you though. So, I say everyone deserves a 2nd chance. Just don't give them a 3rd, 4th, and 5th.
2007-10-08 05:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Shuggamomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got back together with an ex, we got married, he cheated on my 5 mths after the wedding - we got divorced . . . did NOT work !!! I really wish I had not bothered - that wasted several years of my life when I might have met someone that would have been a better match.
2007-10-08 05:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Once I end a relationship, it's over, forever. It takes a lot for me to give up on someone, but when I do, I know it's over.
Generally when something fails the first time, it is more likely to fail the second time around.
2007-10-08 05:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋