am i cursed or something: stupid cupid?

Question

listen ok i av dated quite a few guys and every time i think this i the one something happens will i ever find true love i really think that its time that i am in a settled relationship that can grow into marriage will it ever happen for me..

i had this b/f loved him with all my heart then i found out he had another g/f

i met this really nice guy at my previous job then but he is old like 63

then my present bf told me he has genital herpes

i am so tired of these drama i am so thinking of getting a g/f instead???

really want to live the convential though... but there seemss to be no hope any real guy out there..

Answer 1

For one, get to know who you're dating before jumping in with both feet.

Reevaluate the type of guy you're looking for and pursue that, instead of going after the first guy who happens to put a little twinkle in your eye.

There is nothing wrong with taking ones time when dating and you may have to go on a few casual dates before meeting the right guy.

As for genital herpes, I wouldn't fool around with anyone with an STD. I don't mind women buying me gifts, I just don't want the gifts that keep on giving.

Answer 2

There are genuine guys out there. Don't let your past experiences lead you to believe there aren't.

It sounds like you are trying WAY too hard. Take a step back. Figure out what you truly want for your own self. Maybe you need to learn more about yourself and become happy with who you are before you enter a meaningful relationship. These things tend to happen on their own terms, when you force it it doesn't seem to work.

I wanted a girlfriend so badly all through high school and college. I am pretty good looking guy with many great qualities, but I just couldn't make it happen. Finally, when I stopped actively seeking a girlfriend, I met an incredible young woman whom I fell in love with. It was at the end of my college career and let me tell you it made all the past disappointments worthwhile because those experiences made it feel so good. These bad experiences you are having do have a purpose. The purpose is that you know what bad feels like, so when you meet the right person and experience the good, you truly know how good it feels because you already felt the bad.

Keep trying! There are so many great wonderful men out there. They are there and they will treat you like a queen! You need to start thinking of yourself as someone who deserves that, and that is what you will attract to yourself!!

Answer 3

You are not cursed; you are just looking like everyone else. There are many people who want the same thing you want...you just haven't found the right hook up. You must be approaching that age when you think life is passing you by but it isn't. You seem like a real fun person, but you need to screen your mates alittle closer. Maybe you need to stop looking in the same places..it hasn't work so far...maybe move a change of location and start over with a new look, new job and new life...Good luck

Answer 4

there is a guy out there for u, please dont become a lesbo, the population is going down as it is. dont try to find a guy, just let the guy come to u. my friends parents met in an elevator. and genital herpies isnt a problem, unless u want children. just use a condom

Answer 5

sounds like your present b/f has ruined you for anyone else...who's going to touch you now if you've got herpes?

Answer 6

I'm single and disease free. so where you from?

Answer 7

you will find a man... be patient

Answer 8

do you want to talk to me.
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