Im sorry guys but i didnt know u couldnt drink in the reception hall at church! im getting married in march and i just found this out. the thought didnt even cross my mind. my family is huge and real partyers, thats all theyve been talking about is celebrating after the wedding! what r options where the fam can still have a good time b/c this also means the music h as to change. we cant drop it like its hot and back that @ss up in the church house...can we?
2007-10-08 03:30:19 · 13 answers · asked by msblack23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I can't believe you thought you could do all that in a church. It is God's house not a club. if you can't have fun with out drinking and partying, you are going to have to find another place for your reception.
Or just have cake and punch in the church then go to a club later to party.
2007-10-08 03:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by j_lynn_griff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a Photographer and have seen alot of weddings. This is prob the biggest complaint I hear about receptions. The Church won't allow alchohol ect. Some churches will not allow alchohol AT ALL and some will allow a champagne fountain. In my experience most people just opt to have the reception elsewhere, but it seems you are already locked in to the reception hall, so i suggest that you guys have a RSVP after reception PARTY somewhere else....such as at your home or parents home, or a nice bar ( If there is such a place in your area ). Most Hotels have very nice bars and some even have dance floors and the best part is it's free....Maybe just announce at the reception that there is an after party...you can provide the alchohol at home. You can send out computer printed invites to a BYOB as an after party as well or just invite everyone who would like to come to follow you to a bar or hotel bar. ( I would definately CALL the hotels and ask if they have anything going on that weekend and can accomodate you, you may be able to find a place that has live music...which is a plus. There are all sorts of options. Hope this helps, Jenny
2007-10-08 03:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not able to find a new place you can try just doing a non-alcholic reception. These are actually becoming more popular, because people tend to drink a little much at the reception. Your family may be upset but if you explain to them what is going on I am sure they will understand. Also for entertainment consider getting a karaoke machine, that is always ALOT of fun. Before long your family wont even realize they are not drinking because they will be having so much fun.
2007-10-08 16:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by I am Mrs. H! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, I just thought your question was funny. If I were you, I would probably try to find another location. . . if that is possible. If it is not, maybe you could shorten the reception time at the church and move the party elsewhere afterwards and party til you drop ;)
Save some energy for the honeymoon. : )
Good luck, and have a great celebration....
2007-10-08 03:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Maryann .. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately try to find another place to hold the reception. You still have time, and there are alot of places that aren't very expensive to hold a reception, and at the same time you can drink as much as you want and back that a** up!! Good Luck!!
2007-10-08 03:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Carly Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Churches are kind of strict that way.
(1) Look for local community centers nearby, like VFWs, American Legions, or city-owned centers. They usually have liquor licenses and you can serve alcohol (although they may charge you a lot more for it!)
(2) Some parks allow you to bring in alcohol, but would have restrictions on noice, DJ, etc.
(3) Think about a backyard BBQ if you live nearby and cost is a real consideration.
2007-10-08 03:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest start looking for an alternate location for the reception.
2007-10-08 04:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a reception somewhere else or have a small reception and head out to a bar or club after with the partiers!!! That is what we are doing!
2007-10-08 05:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by daniegirl917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible to find an alternate location for your reception, I think that may be the best option for you and your party.
2007-10-08 03:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So celebrate after the reception at a bar, or go to someone's house and BYOB.
2007-10-08 04:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋