My daughter's biological dad is no longer a part of our life. He was abusive and had some drug problems as well as alcohol problems. He lost is parental rights two years ago and was calling me about once a month up until a few months ago when the calls just stopped. When he'd call, he'd always be drunk and trying to fight and I would hang up on him. I have no idea where he lives or how to get a hold of him and we have no reason to speak to each other. I don't miss him calling, but I worry about how the calls just suddenly stopped- if he's okay or if he's in jail or dead or whatever. I have no way to contact him, and that part doesn't really worry me- I'm just worried that something bad happened to him. Is this normal?
2007-10-08 02:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are that worried look up death certs in the area where he lives but hes probably pissed somewhere I wouldnt worry.
2007-10-08 02:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes although you don't have a relationship any more he was once a part of your life and he's still the father of your daughter no matter what its normal for you to worry especially when he has all those drug and alcohol problems I'm sure anybody would worry its just human nature
2007-10-08 02:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by SEXYONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You once loved this man, he is your daughter's father. I'm sure you still care about his well being. There is nothing wrong with that . It is very normal to be concerned.
You can call the local hospital to see if he has been in an accident or call the local police department to see if he could be in jail. You could do this without contacting him directly.
2007-10-08 02:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by cubby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you feel is normal. A sudden loss of communication between you is really worrying. I suggest that you go on with your life with out the biological father of your daughter. He is not a good example to your daughter.
2007-10-08 02:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Quel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is the father of your child and you have established a relationship with him.Not all relationships make sense or are good. But the fact is, had he been your mail man that suddenly dissappeared you would notice and be concerned. Any human would be concerned.
2007-10-08 02:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being worried, but it's a waste of your energy. Don't get sucked in to worrying about him, you did the right thing by cutting him off. Be glad he's not bothering you and move on.
2007-10-08 02:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave this alone and be thankful that this drama has stopped.
You are not with him for those reasons. Yes, while it is normal, you need to let it go.
Every time you have a thought regarding him, hug your daughter.
Be strong.
2007-10-08 02:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 10:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by starcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be worried to much.Ask the counsel if they have any records on him and try to contact him.I'm sure he is ok but if you are worried then try phoneing him or going around his house or get his friends or family to cheak up on him.
But try not to let your child get involved in all of this
2007-10-08 02:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by ziggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural, as he has been involved in your life so much recently, and caused problems for you and your family. don't worry too much, though.
2007-10-08 02:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Gem Gem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋