My ex-bf is going out with my best friend but I heard from one of his friends that hes going out with her to get me jealous and that its all an act!!!!
I think this is horrible but I want to make sure I'm 100% correct that its all an act!
and his "gf" is my absolute best friend but like as soon as they started to go out she began to completely forget about
me! and my other best friend is going out with another one of my ex's and I still love him!
we only went out for a day and he broke it off because he knew that when we broke up he'd treat me like sh*t and he doesn't want to ruin our friendship but idk how long I can stand all of this!!
I'm thinking of possibly dumping them all! but there all some of my clostest friends that I can tell ANYTHING to them!
and now my two best friends -listed above- are ignoring me because they always seem to run to their bf's with out even acknowlegeing me!
and it really hurts me!
2007-10-08 01:06:55 · 13 answers · asked by April Agnostic™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and as I started to think about it
if I dump them they won't have me to comfort them!
and I kno how to comfort them better than any of there other friends or there family!
please help me!
2007-10-08 01:08:02 · update #1
He is a player, don't get played for a fool!
2007-10-08 01:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by book writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are flattering yourself if you think your ex is dating this girl to make you jealous - you are therefore saying this girl actually has nothing to offer apart from that she's not "you". How can you be so arrogant?!
Your friends have bfs and you are waiting around for when it goes wrong so you can "Be there for them"? What utter rubbish! That means you actuall Want their relationships to go wrong so you can "Prove" what a good friend you are. How conceited is that??!!
How many ex's have you got ??!! Look at it like this - your boyfriends are of a certain type, and that certain "type" likes girls like you. You friends - however much you like to think you are totally different - are actually, by the fact they are friends, very much like you in many ways. So it stands to reason that the "type" of boys that like you, and that you like, would also be the type of boys that like your friends, and that your friends like.....and also you are all about the same age, in the same area.
get over yourself and stop being so selfish - ex's are ex's for a reason - it didn't work out.
It's the game of love, and it's just at the moment you are losing. Don't worry, your time will come, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon!
2007-10-08 08:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget those boys, and for now, find some new gf's. If your current gf's are real friends, you'll all get through this. You are young, there are more true friends to be made out there and lots of cute boys to meet! Don't waste your time with insensitive boys! Look for the ones that will not break your heart, they are the keepers.
2007-10-08 08:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by DaisyMae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh-- this is a trick question. That's all up to you. From what I've experienced, a real friend wouldn't steal your exes if they knew you still had feelings for them. I had a really sweet boyfriend in grade 8, but one of my .. sort of trusted friends got to his head and he dumped me for the wrong reasons.
=/ He tried to date her but she moved before he could, so he came running back to me three months later. I made a mistake by taking our relationship back -- but you gotta learn from it. I haven't talked to that girl in about two years because I'm still pissed for her backstabbing me. When you experience something like this -- you move on and don't make that mistake again. A real friend wouldn't ignore you -- ignoring you just means that you're a thing of the past. If they feel so -- just dump their butts and make some new friends.
Best of luck! â¥!
2007-10-08 08:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either way, I would get rid of them. You don't need them there to make you feel guilty. If she was your absolute best friend, she would have told him no in the first place. She would consider how you would feel. Chances are he just did it to play you two against eachother. She needs to get rid of him and so do you. Or like I said, get rid of them both. Nothing but head games and the world is full of them.
2007-10-08 08:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by chattrbabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i had this problem before.Just when he is around you with her just act cool because if oyu don't then he will like it when you get mad because that is the reason he is going out with her ok.Try to find someone to make him jealous and then he will want you back in no time.i tryed it.it worked.so don't let him think it bothers you.just hang out with your friends until he gets tired of doind that ok.Good luck by the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-08 08:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if your friends really did what you said they did... i think they're not really your "friends".. cause friends would always choose their friends rather than their boyfriends/girlfriends.. it's not easy finding someone whom you could trust and whom you can talk to.. it can take years building friendship and to just let it all go bad just because of guy is just so lame..
2007-10-08 08:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friends. tell them how you feel about them going out with your ex's. i understand they are your best friends that you can tell anything to, but if they were that great of friends they wouldnt have gone out with your ex. every girl knows to not do that unless they have permission. but just talk to them first and see how that goes.
2007-10-08 08:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by lavoniex3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go write a book!
2007-10-08 08:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW DAMN GIRL WHAT ARE YOU IN DAYS OF OUR LIVES!!.WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS SCREW THAT BOY AND HIS GIRL, GET YOURSELF A HOTTER MAN AND LEAVE SCHOOL OR WHREVER WITH DIGNATY
2007-10-08 08:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by prettyschoolgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋