Have this pinay GF for almost 3 years- she happen to be married and say will seperate her husband and live w me - husband is mad, but she seems to get stuck up in the middle of the sandwich - i feel need to make decision soon cause we are matured people around our 50 years both - she say her plan to dump him and be w me many times now, but seems only in words, i love her madly - whats best, wait another 3 years or give her up now-
2007-10-08 00:48:49 · 4 answers · asked by unggoydk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
untill now all say to dump the relation - word that say love make blind will fit on me untill now, but seems time is closing up that ill move on in my life soon
2007-10-10 00:56:52 · update #1
Get out now, if she was gonna leave him, she would have already done it, don't allow her to use you anymore, she wants to have her cake and eat it to.You are to good of a person to let someone do this to you.
2007-10-08 00:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Leeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey brother, this is a tough one. ive seen this over and over, and personally went through it one myself, her boyfriend not husband. are kids involved??? if so, that makes it alot harder. if not, shes just stuck in something that has gone numb, and yet still satisfying some aspect of comfort. shell probably never get up enough nerve to actually make the change. that was my experience. but only you know the depth of your feelings you both share. if your willing to wait for that perfect period for her to make the change, and you feel she will eventually, id wait it out if you can handle it. just make sure that you and her are on the same page as far as what her intentions are. look in her eyes, youll be able to see sincerity or insecurity. talk to her from the heart. all the best.
2007-10-11 20:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell her to make a decision or you will leave her. She needs to make up her mind so that everyone knows where they stand in the relationship. If she can't decide then you should tell her that your moving on because you can't keep waiting you can't, its a waste of time and life.
2007-10-08 00:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by gesejimneys87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new love
She'' never leave her husband !
They never do !
I've heard this time and time again. If she was willing to do , she'd have done it ages ago.
Sorry to be harsh
2007-10-08 00:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by erika h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋