i cry every night.i cannot concentrate on stuff..i've stopped writing to my friends who i miss so much..i'm 15 and have moved to a place i dont like at all..i love playing the piano and writing..but somehow i dont feel like doing the things i like anymore..i don't think anything or anyone can help me...
please help if you can.
2007-10-07 19:04:47 · 37 answers · asked by jersie 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Eleanor Roosevelt your a jerk, i turned 15 a week or so ago and this one girl started this rumor that i was going to kill people or something and that made me have a breakdown in one of my classes, now everybody makes fun of me but i just accept who i am my friends are amazing and really a cure for anything so give one of them a call and e mail me if you ever need to vent or something being a teen sucks
2007-10-07 19:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going through a bout of depression, which is normal when a traumatic event occurs in your life. You moved, so it may be that. Second, you're 15, which means you're going through physical changes which include a change in your hormones. You can help yourself by writing what you feel in a journal or diary. Examine how you feel as specifically as possible. Continue playing the piano, try some lively songs once in a while. Get involved with some organization which provides help to others--church group, hospital volunteer, reading to shut-ins, or even picking up trash around the neighborhood, scouts, day care volunteer, something. It will help you get your mind off some of the things you don't like that have happened, and you'll feel good about the good you're doing. If you're still feeling this way in a year, see a counselor because then it might be serious, but you'll have your written record and a better idea of what's bothering you. Good luck, and good living to you.
2007-10-07 19:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear how you are feeling. I remember being a preteen and I moved 3 times between the ages of 9-14. It sucked!
I think you're experiencing some symptoms of depression. You've left all the friends behind who you miss and possibly grew up with, you're in a place you don't know, and you feel very alone.
I really urge you to seek guidance, for instance go talk to the school guidance counselor or their psychologist and tell them how you are feeling. Noone here is a licensed professional who can tell you what you need to do or provide the resources necessary to assist you on your way, but I can tell you that seeking their assistance will greatly improve your life.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-10-07 19:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Flowergardener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey fella, don't worry so much. You sound like a nice kid who is pretty intelligent also.
Please realize life takes time to unfold. I was in your same shoes when I was 9 years old and moved out of state. I met new people and went through some changes. As I look back, I was never into fads or major changes, I believe I was the same person at age 5 as when I was 15.
I always felt like I was extremely different than other people. I overthought things, or acted differently, etc. As time passed I learned to not look at myself so hard. Why, cause everyone is so quick to judge you, but guess what? They judge theirself quicker and harsher than anyone else could.
Ok, so whats my point? Sometimes I just ramble and ramble... I can tell just by the way you phrased your question that you are considerate and detailed. It kind of reminded me of myself.
If I could say one thing to help you out, it would be, THE EASY WAY IN LIFE IS FOR THE WEAKLINGS.
When I say weaklings, I mean.
The Drug Addicts.
The Mean People.
Ignorant People.
etc...
Anyone can choose the easy/weak way out. Your pretty smart and I know you can do life your way.
2007-10-07 19:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost alot of things that were familiar to you, that made you who you are and now you feel lost without them. If at all possible, find a teacher you can tell this to and see if the school has a counselor where you can talk to someone one on one. Not because you are "crazy" but one on one means there will be no interuptions and you can get at the bottom of why you are so sad and come to terms with it so that you can get your life back on course. You have a broken heart for some reason and it does not have to be from a boy. We can get broken hearts from life! A counselor can help with those kind of things. Don't be shy. All the famous celebs out in Hollywood see counselors!
2007-10-07 19:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cry every night.i cannot concentrate on stuff..i've stopped writing to my friends who i miss so much.i'm 17.i love to writing. writing..but somehow i dont feel like doing the things i like anymore..i don't think anything or anyone can help me...
please help if you can.
2007-10-07 19:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by dhairya p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling depressed because of the move to the new place. Have you thought why this move came to your life? To bring out some hidden strengths and talents in you.
Wipe the tears, look around and find those treasures. Enrich your life and prepare yourself for the wonderful years ahead. Don't waste even a moment. Best of luck!
2007-10-11 03:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just because you haven't adjusted to a new enviroment. What's wrong with you? Nothing's wrong and you're not going insane, it's pretty normal with you having a different environment. What's not good if you don't learn how to adjust and hey! you have to move on now. You should learn to accept that and look for friends they'll keep you company. And don't entertain thoughts of depression. Theres good and nice life out there and also friends... Good luck and I hope I gave you a good answer.
2007-10-07 19:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by chiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get out of this state of mind. You don't like the new place, you can only feel better by doing the things you like. Write to your friends, tell them how you feel. Also if possible try to make a new friend in the new place.
2007-10-07 21:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Analyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre little depressed..
moving ranks pretty high on the list of stressful events..
you could use the time you are online to look up a writers group for teens in your area and other activities that you enjoy which may lead you to meet people...
you may have feelings that you lost everything you knew and enjoyed and so find it hard to talk to people you dont know when you may see and maybe feel distant from...
but you can get a webcam and chat with them or schedule for one of them to visit you...
15 is not too young to catch a plane with your parents consent of course during a school or summer break..
good luck sweetie
2007-10-07 19:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by smittnlittlkitn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋