I consider marriage very sacred. No good can came from affairs.Plus they are dangerous. She confided in me and I told her how I felt against it and I feel that me being truthful has strained our relationship. I believe karma and reaping what you sow. Plus I had a cousin killed by the husband of his lover. I rather have her mad at me then stay quiet and her being hurt. Many people have been killed in love triangles, and I don't want to be the person wishing I had sad something. Plus I would not want anyone interfering with my marriage.Plus anyone who would disrespect their spouse like that obviously has questionable character.I realize the decision is her's I just want her to know there are consequences.Besides it is not worth the trouble. BTW I Am single I think I was right do you?
2007-10-07 16:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by babygurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cowardice asks the question - is it safe?
Expediency asks the question - is it politic?
Vanity asks the question - is it popular?
But conscience asks the question - is it right?
And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular; but one must take it because it is right.
2007-10-09 17:37:40 · update #1
Look if you say anything it will be you on the out side, but next time someone wants to tell you some thing of such heavy burden for you to carry you should say that you do not want to know. When some one wants to tell you their secrets it is to lessen the load they carry, so next time tell them before that you do not want to know something that can hurt someone else.
2007-10-07 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your first question there, I would have to say that honestly I would stay quiet, pretty much because in my family any time you try and help someone out they usually go and get their guns and try to bring violence against you. Pretty much their way or no way. As for your second question there I do agree that you are right there. I mean its obviously very stupid of your family member to want to indulge in an affair knowing that another family member was killed because of the same thing. I know many people will tell you to mind your own business and in a way you should. But in a case like this I would have to say if she won't retaliate in a bad way against you try to keep on convincing her of the possibly bad outcome if she continues the affair. And I know she may not even listen, but if you have to keep bringing up your cousin and all that should help her to see the light hopefully. Good luck and I'll be praying for you and her.
2007-10-07 23:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get proof and then tell them.
You want to make sure they believe you.
2007-10-08 00:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by NoGood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should mind your own business.
2007-10-07 23:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋