Are you well liked by others?

Question

What is it about you that attracts people to you? Is it your physical appearance, the nature of your spirit, your humor, what you do for others? Help me to understand what it is that makes you and people in general well liked. Thanks

Answer 1

Generally, no. And I'll tell you exactly why. It's because I have social anxiety and people don't understand it. When I avoid social situations, people think it's because I must be stuck up, and they hate me for it. But I'm not a snob, and if they were good enough people to make an effort to find out the truth, they wouldn't hate me.

Answer 2

I have been told I am.
I actually asked a few people this question out of curiosty and I was told you just never know what you are going to get with me. LOL I have a such an insanley wide range of interests, passions and tidbits of knowledge, that you just never know.
I do have an odd sense of humor but it's because I can make light of just about anything. I spent too many years crying. Laughing is just more fun.
I have been told I have a great deal of spirit when I am being myself.
I don't do anything half way. If I give you my loyality, my heart and my friendship, you have it. Period. If it's in my power to do or give it to you I will. But on the same page, if you cross me out of malice, you're f**ked.
Um...I guess I'm pretty. I've been told I am. I don't think about it often. LOL
I always stick up for the underdog. I can't stand when people pick on other people for no reason. Especially if that person can't seem to stand up for themselves. Yup I'm the crazy girl who will come out of nowhere and go off on your *** for being mean to someone else. Ugh. HUGE pet peeve.

Answer 3

When people are around me,they seem to share my emotions. So if I were to become happy,then everyone else is either bothered by the energy that I seem to "impose" on them during time of dramatic antics,or they flock to it.
My strange sense of humor also tends to lighten the mood,along that I have been deemed the teenage shrink XD
So I suppose I am well liked by some due to my outspoken(physical & spiritual) nature,which can cause unwanted conflict,and the fact that I am a crying shoulder to anyone who feels the need to express themselves.
My physical appearance?
I've got the bright emerald green eyes thing goin for me. XD
Other wise I got nothin besides that damn high metabolism.

Answer 4

people like me for some reason. I don' t know why. I'm not all that attractive, and I'm pretty anti-social. I don't particularly like having company and I'll only go to a social function if I HAVE to.
People come to me though. I think it's because they know I am practical and can pinpoint the root of problems and issues. Sometimes I shoot from the hip, sometimes I'm gentle. I always try to treat people with respect, but that doesn't always come through because my expression often tells people I'm annoyed. That's only the case sometimes. Most of the time, I'm thinking about several things at once and I develop this little scowl that makes people think twice before they talk to me.
But anyway - for some reason I'm well liked. I have only 4 really good friends, but being a beleiver, there are many people I know I can trust and count on... as they can trust and count on me.

I dunno if that's helpful. It's always a rather confusing subject for me to work out.

((((twin))))

blessing s:)

Answer 5

I am a nurse, so I have a comfortable way about me.
I laugh alot and smile more.
I treat everyone as I want to be treated, unless your actions tell me otherwise.
Most people like me because I'm easy going and I have a decent, though dry sense of humor.
Not because I'm attractive. Just an Average Jane.

Answer 6

I think I am liked but very few people can get close to me because I do not trust easily.

Co-workers, neighbors, and casual acquaintances think I am funny and thoughtful, while also opinionated.

I am most certainly NOT beautiful or even pretty. That has made me approachable to women and the plague to men.

I trust women much easier than I do men.

On here with the anonymity of the computer I can be flirtatious and outgoing. There are several men here that I like very much, in a friendship way.

I am NOT looking for love!!!

Answer 7

I'm generally well-liked. But I'm rather opinionated (probably bordering on arrogant sometimes) and not exactly shy about communicating my opinions. So, there are also some folks who don't like me worth a damn. And I'm comfortable enough with myself to where that doesn't bother me. I have a good (if unusual) sense of humor, I'm articulate and fairly knowledgeable about a wide range of subjects. I carry myself with confidence and I'm relatively adept in social situations.

Answer 8

What's with more of this whiney needy garbage?

WE'RE ORCS!!!

We don't need no stinkin' attractive! 'Sides, what we do for others doesn't mean they're gonna be around much longer anyhow. Helps ta be expendable and whatnot cause it's the charisma of our Fuerer that incites us all to be together.

We also find that "where there's a whip there's a way." Nothing like a little pain and fear to keep the whelps in line.
Now pipe down and KEEP MARCHIN!!!

Answer 9

Usually for me, its the Body language, behavior, manners, discipline, respectful, sense of humor, nature of spirit(as u said) etc. I look forward to those things in a person to like them, and vice versa.

Answer 10

In real life, it's a pretty simple equation to get on well with others.

Smile warmly, make eye contact, show interest, and listen with compassion. Show a sense of humor about yourself. If you can do those things, you will be popular beyond belief.