So i just found that i have a dad and his has like 4 millions in his bank account.?

Question

he left my mom when i was a baby and has a family of his own and three kids, he never called me or anything. What would you do if you were me

Answer 1

I'm not going to ask how you know he's your Dad, or how you know his bank balance. He's never contacted you, he has a new wife and 3 children. You cannot expect a happy reunion. If you can, let it go. If you must contact him, be discreet and don't be suprised if he does not want to talk to you.

Answer 2

#1 the money is irrelevant. Stick to dealing with the emotion of finding out about the dad and drop thinking about what is cash value is. Seriously, that won't help. Life can be hard that way. Men walk away from their kids sometimes, and it may not be right, but it happens. Consider seeking some therapy to deal with the emotions. If you'd like a relationship, find out if he is willing to do the same. If you are just looking for money, don't. Just walk away. It isn't worth it to bring up the past and try to put a $ value on it. And i doubt it would make you feel any better in the long run.

Answer 3

Hmmm sometimes it's best to get the other side of the story because the parent with the kid sometimes tries to make the other parent sound bad so they don't loose the kid.

You could sue him for the back support if he's not paid any as well.

I'm sure it adds up.
I hate it when people don't take care of their kids.

Answer 4

I will continue on with my life without him. If he care enough, he should be making effort to be part of my life. Unless you are really poor right now and needs money. You might be able to get a big chunk of that millions.

Answer 5

Personally..I wouldn't want anything to do with him..I think I would try calling him..but if I got rejected that would be the end of it. If I didn't get rejected then I would talk get to know him.

Answer 6

Err..nothing..He's such a irresponsible SOB I wouldn't want anything to do with him or know him..