My brother is 43 and I am 37......as long as I remember he has been very abusive.I have tried to stay away from him as much as I could but he always finds a way to give me a hard time....last year i had a baby and i was so happy , he is not married and got very jealous....the way he knows well is to wind my parents up against me......4 years ago I invited him to my house for lunch and that was when we bought a new house...he came in and was aggressively intimidating us about everything in the house.....7 years ago when I passed all the exams and finally started to work again he was up tight and would go around my parents and would tell them how bad and inefficient I was in my work place and etc etc....at the end I felt it was not a good adiea to let him know anything about my life because he always compares himself with me and gets unhappy....I asked my parents not to tell him anything about me and just tried to hide away to stay away from trouble but he tortures my elderly parents .
2007-10-07 14:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by wintersnow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't not tell him things, but always keep it basic.
Eg: Been shopping, baby walked today, or simple things like that.
As for your parents, he has been their son for 43 years, I think they know by now what he is like.
2007-10-07 14:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by littlemonstersx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shop2ear is right
He is majorly jealous of how successful you have been because he has not had the same kind of luck. you are doing right by staying away from him. He has a problem and until he can stop being so abusive then stay away from him. You're parents can handle him since they have known him since he was a kid.
2007-10-07 23:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sh00ting_St@r! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a shame, that he has not done as well, as you have. He is so jealous of you, that you are doing well, and he is not. He needs to grow up, he should not be blaming anyone, for his failures in life, but himself. God knows, he should not be worrying your parents, at his age, and at their age.
Your Parents, should be enjoying one another into their Golden years. They may have to put their foot, down and tell him he is not welcome until he changes his wicked ways.
It may get to a point, that your Parents, may have to call the police, and have him removed from their home. It is called tough love.
2007-10-07 21:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by That one 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Brother has a very big problem, he needs help, you better keep away from him or else he will bring a lot of grief in to your life.
2007-10-07 21:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tenan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seems like you have worked out something that works for you, but not your parents. You should suggest him to a psychiatrist or somewhere he can get the help he needs
2007-10-07 21:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know he is shallow and unhappy. that is not your fault,,is it? If NO..get over it and just know he is an ***. Blood does not mean you have to like them.
2007-10-07 22:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋