Realistically speaking what would they do to make you disown them? Murder/Religion/Gay/Pregnant etc?
2007-10-07 13:57:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I dont know if i could ever disown my child. There may be things that they do that i dont approve of but cutting them off completely is no way to go. If i think about it, if later in life one of my children murder someone or do something really bad I would be very upset, but i dont think i would disown them. my personal opinion--- i would be upset if my child turned out Gay but i would always try to support them and certainly not disown them, i just might not agree with the way they live or whatever.
2007-10-07 14:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Christa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a word, nothing. I am sure my kids will do many things to upset/disappoint/shock me, but I would NEVER disown them. If you choose to bring a child into the world and raise them, it shouldn't be a choice whether to disown them later or not.
2007-10-07 21:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mel J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Mom and I were distant for 2 years... I felt like she disowned me. It was a stupid situation too, she sided with my exboyfriend. (really stupid) I know how hard it was for me and it still is. Our relationship is so different from it. So NO I would never disown my child for anyhting. I always tell my daughter that I will always love her, but may not agree with decisions she will make in life.
2007-10-07 21:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by beach mama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have one son who is just 10 months old, and the love I feel for him is so huge that nothing he could ever do would make me disown him. When he is all grown up I am guessing he will do naughty boy stuff, but whatever he does I dont think I could ever dis-own him, maybe be very dissapointed or angry but I'd always be his Mum and be there for him whatever he had done wrong.
2007-10-07 21:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by kiwichickie 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it works that way. I can't imagine anything my child could do that would make me disown him.
Now, there are things that *might* make me look at him in complete how-can-you-be-my-child-where-did-I-go-wrong shock. I mean, he could vote Republican.
*Hides under coffee table as shoes fly*
But seriously, I can't imagine disowning my child, even in the worst possible circumstances. Ditto my siblings and my husband. There are some bonds that can't be broken.
2007-10-07 22:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing,
I could never disown my daughter. My grandfather disowned me when i told him me and my wife were moving away to another city.
I walked away from alot of money and a lot of realestate, but I do not regret it.
After all he was the one who taught me to never let anyone try to control your life,
Being Italian he thought that we should all bow down to him as he was the patriarch of the family.
Well now he is gone and he stayed true to his word, My sisters inherited everything.
My children will grow up knowing that WHATEVER they do I will be there for them.
2007-10-07 21:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by bakerone 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i could never disown my child no matter what they did. I brought them into this world and no matter what decisions they make whether they be good or bad, I will always love my child. i dont see how anyone could disown their child.
2007-10-07 22:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by krystal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She'd always be my daughter. I don't agree with the idea of disowning family members. Why throw someone out when they need you most? It wouldn't mean I approve of the behavior.
2007-10-07 21:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
if they ever murdered someone
or were gay or were pregnant at 13 with a 45 y/os baby.
i would never disown my kids or treat them bad,
my love is unconditional and nothing they can do will take that away.
now surely i would be disapointed but you didn't ask that. i would still love them
2007-10-07 21:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by 3 girls call me mommy 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I can't think of anything - I suppose maybe becoming a racist would make me distance myself... but religion, homosexuality, and pregnancy wouldn't even make me blink - who cares about that stuff, in the greater scheme of life, really?
Murder I don't know - I supposed I'd have to cross that bridge when I got to it to really know where my heart would lead me.
2007-10-08 01:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋