I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now and I am really starting to fall for him. I have been in other longer relationship ( 4 years) and I thought I was in love with him but I was wrong. I just want to make sure this is it. I like this one SOOOOO much!
2007-10-07 13:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I know how to write to her first...
"Your" means it is your own possession. For example:
-YOUR house is the one at the corner.
-Is that YOUR friend?
Now...
"You're" is short for "You are". For Example:
-YOU'RE the sunshine of my life. -(So it says Steve Wonder)-
-How do you know when YOU'RE "In Love"? -(So you keep saying)-
-(So... do you "love him" or do you "just like him"? If you have to ask others how it is to fall in love, it is because you are not in love. You just have a crush... yes, just liking him. If love was there you would of known long-lonnnnng time ago, and "all-by-your-self".)-
2007-10-07 14:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? Generally when you are younger (perhaps under 18) you really don't know what you want. Everything about you changes when you get older and transition through your 20's. I must of thought that about 5 guys were "the one" back when I was a teenager. When you get older and more mature you generally find things about a person that are skin deep instead of on the outside. You don't really ever know somebody until you have lived with them. Which is why I believe you should live together before getting married. I'm 21 now, own a house with my fiance and very happy I didn't stick with those loosers. If you are young, the guy your crushing on now may be a laugh in your future. If your in love, the guy is practically your best friend. You can tell him anything and do anything with him. good luck.
2007-10-07 13:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that just because a relationship does not last forever does not mean that it was bad or that you didn't love that person during the relationship. I was sure in love when I was 15, and we dated over a year. But we changed and grew apart. It was a great relationship, and I am really glad we had it, and I know we were in love at the time. All your past relationships add up to make you what you are today.
2007-10-07 13:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i'm amazed that you are dating your boyfriend for 5 months now and don;t even know if you love him or not !
Does seeing him ot hearing his voice on the phone make you happy, does your gutt feel funny when you look into his eyes? Do you like being with him?
If you answered yes to all above, then you are officially in love. However, you have to make sure he feels the same about you.
2007-10-07 13:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by spartan_virgo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really ask others this.
its just something you know for a fact.
and if your questioning, it then your obviously not.
being in love is almost indescribeable.
here are a few things though that might help:
its where you can't see them with anyone else
its when they are all you think about
its a feeling of happiness
and when you guys agrue you both always try to make it work out no matter what
its when you are comfortable around them like you are with your family and close friends
its when you can rely on them and know they will follow through
its when they become your everything, your best friend and lover.
give love time and it will come to you.
love is patient.
2007-10-07 13:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait longer than 5 months ...Can you see him in your future as a husband? A father? A grandfather? A leader and supporter?
2007-10-07 13:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with him wont make it right. Being in love can be very very wrong, if it isn't a healthy love.
Being in love with him won't you right, and being in love wont "make you sure", if anything, it can make you dizzy with uncertainty.
Hmmm, why not give it a few years? Then ask yourself, is this it? Am I still in love? And if you are still in love, then ask yourself, will he still make me happy in 50 years time? Many people have to ask themselves, is the love alone enough?
2007-10-07 14:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gone Do Lally Lally?
(...That might be an English term! )
Then - yes - you are definitely in love
2007-10-07 13:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know thru a time limit you know by the way he amkes you feel
question it and see if you really love him
if you can see urslef withut him its not love
2007-10-07 13:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sonam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are always think him,& you want always see him,just not like not you doing in a fst few days.
2007-10-07 13:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by kaname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋