Would you rather be with someone that you love and loves you or would you rather chase after lust of someone new??? My ex told me he would rather chase after his lust than his love for me..
2007-10-07 13:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We dated on and off for three years...I did spend time getting to know him...
2007-10-07 13:23:44 · update #1
We were suppose to building a life together..a future together..now he is done.
2007-10-07 13:24:45 · update #2
I want to be with some one I love.....Lust is so empty.theres no emotion,just conquest. Theres no spark,no soul,just instant gratification then emptyness.
2007-10-07 13:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Your ex is an @ss then! How can he say that! ughhh...
The answer, I think when a guy isn't ready to commit to someone they will want to look for lust. they want to live the bachelor life. Normally these guys from 19 - 30 of age..Of course there are exceptions. Guys go for lust is because in high school they've already dated, had a relationship and a girlfriend. When they reach to college it's party and enjoying their youth! Plus, guys mature slowly.. they won't know what they want til their 28,29 and up... during that time they want to be ambitious and work hard to have a family. Then they'll want to find love.. if the opportunity is there, the time is right... they'll want to settle down...
2007-10-07 13:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by vintage_springs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love all the way! Lust is nothing more then a fantasy that people chase after ,but their never satisfied and it ultimately destroys all your good qualities.Your ex is going to have to wake up from his dream world and get back to reality!
2007-10-07 13:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by atlas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime its very hard to understand,but to have a positive connection where two souls meet to become one you must have love of that person as a total commitment with the connection of lust in ur heart,body and soul where know one exist in ur surrounding excite the two of you,in other words love and lust must go together to make a relationship last forever.
2007-10-07 13:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by woodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be somthing called intamcy for a relationship to last, beauty and even lust will fade with time, but real love and affection and intimacy will last even when we are gone
2007-10-07 18:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Villain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather be with someone that loved me, that i had lust for.
2007-10-07 13:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you date little boys . Next time take your time getting to know someone and you might find a MAN !!!
2007-10-07 13:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him he is obviously using you...you can do a lot better ... also finding himself dumped will deflate his ego....you could deflate it further by saying..."By the way,I'm dumping you cos you aint all that"
2007-10-07 13:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be with my lady --- actually there is no lady in the world i would rather be with --- says a lot i know --- it is true
2007-10-07 13:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love.
2007-10-07 13:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by incineratethemachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋