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i'm kind of nervous about it and i don't know if i should do it. we've been together for 5 months and we really care about each other.. but we're 15 and i don't know if i should do it. we've talked about it so many times and he isn't pressuring me or anything but we really want to do it. should i do it?

2007-10-07 12:59:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i'm kind of nervous about it and i don't know if i should do it. we've been together for 5 months and we really care about each other.. but we're 15 and i don't know if i should do it. we've talked about it so many times and he isn't pressuring me or anything but we really want to do it. should i do it?





also... we have talked about using protection and ive told him that as of this moment my worst fear is getting pregnant. and from what i can tell, he understands that. but thanks for the help.. youre all probably right. it is hormones.

2007-10-07 13:23:58 · update #1

20 answers

If your not ready then don't.

2007-10-07 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Kely_Biatch♥ 4 · 0 0

umm From the court of law you're still underage. As an adult.. *me* i would advise you not to... but anyway... who am i kidding!!!

I just think you have to be absolutely sure that this guy is the right guy for you to give your first time to. Think it over don't think about it cuz at this moment the time you 2 been spending time together caring about eachother so much that made you think you're ready. Sometimes hormones are tricky...

You know, when you asked "should i do it?" it means you're not ready... because if you do, you won't be asking you'll just do it. Sit back... think about it... you're just 15... you have 50 years to experience sex.

When i was around your age, I nearly had sex too.. I was a year younger than you are now. I liked him so much and he was my childhood sweet heart. He asked me if he and I could have sex... and I said No... I never regretted saying no to him or any other boyfriends came along (Yes, I am still a virgin) and I'm not saving myself for marriage (not religious). I just simply don't think those guys were the right one.

Don't rush it... it can be hormones... even though you guys have talked about it.. Instead just talking about sex.. talk about being protected first. Like, he gotta wear a condom etc... Sex isn't the major part. What is, is the outcome of it.. If something went wrong.. like if you 2 will break up will you regret it? or if you had unprotected sex you end up being pregnant how are you, your boyfriend and both families going to deal with it? Sex is easy.. what's hard are after sex.. the consequences that you'll have to face if things goes bad...

2007-10-07 20:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by vintage_springs 3 · 0 1

If you're not sure, you shouldn't. It's a pretty good rule of thumb for things like that.

I mean, there're a fair number of really presuasive reasons not have sex at fifteen. Five months isn't all that long for a relationship. At this age, you probably don't have the emotional resources to handle some of the repurcussions of having sex, especially not if sex results in pregnancy. Having sex will turn up the volume on your whole relationship, and, if and when you guys break up, knowing this guy is the first guy you slept with will make things a lot more difficult. Additionally, there are some ethical questions involved: for instance, would having sex require you to lie to your parents? To your friends? Even if you're morally okay with premarital sex, there's still that issue.

2007-10-07 20:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by July 4 · 0 0

Don't. Believe me, it's not that good when you're that young, and you're not ready to raise a child or deal with an STD, so I'd wait.

Caring about each other just isn't a good enough reason. Wait for Mr. Right, not Mr. Right Now. If he really cares about you, he will consider your future and his and realize that there is no reason to risk your futures just for a roll in the hay.

2007-10-07 20:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kitten S 3 · 0 0

The first line of your question says it all
" I'm kind of nervous about it and i don't if I should do it"
Sweetheart....thats your intuition talking LISTEN TO IT!!
It NEVER LIES,it will always guide you
Its telling you your not ready.
Save yourself the heartache. Wait till your older
You'll know when your ready...follow that inner voice
Good luck.

2007-10-07 20:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0 0

realistically no you should not --- emotionally and possibly physically you are not ready for something so dramatic --- it truly does alter how you feel about each other and stirs you feelings and world viewpoint up so much --- you need more experience of life before you take this step --- you make the decision it must be an informed decision ---- best wishes

2007-10-07 20:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0 0

at 15,,,don't make a mistake,,,wait til you are older and understand that sex is something you want to be special,with that special person,,,save your youth!

2007-10-07 20:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0 0

Heck no!! you are 15 for pete's sake!! u shouldnt be wanting sex till you are married!

2007-10-07 20:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Georgia Peachy 4 · 2 1

If you do your going to regret later in the future, but thats your choice

2007-10-07 20:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Pop~Tart 3 · 2 1

i wouldn't youll end up regretting it. and if you have to ask then you aren't really ready.

2007-10-07 20:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by ___ 3 · 0 0

why r u nervous you won't have to do anything unless u give head or something
sure go ahead

2007-10-07 20:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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