how can older guys fall in love w/ someone younger, like 15 or 16?

Question

what do you guys find in them? what qualities do you look for? j/w

and what if she doesn't have a great body?

Answer 1

Dearest pumpkin
Its not hard to understand why older guys like younger girls like you'r self. Unless we are talking 40ish then that can be kind of gross. But anyways i find that younger gisl are more fun adn willingt o express themselfs and do more things.Like rock climbing and or swimming with our clothes on at a lake. Not to mention they dress nicer and smiles alot. I look for the to be honest and friendly but yet tuff enough not to take any **** from others but be a girl too. When we go out together she can be herself and dress as she wishes and if it calls for a skirt ordress pants then so be it. Her personally has to match her and her friends can be nice too . I dont mind g.f or b.f of hers.

Answer 2

If an older guy falls for a 15/16 year old girl it's because he is emotionally immature and he has had very little if any relationship experience. He feels more attached to a younger girl because she has little relationship experience and she is also more immature than girls his own age. In his twisted mind, he thinks of himself as being younger emotionally. He should seek help immediately!!

Answer 3

I believe it's lust at first... (well anybody could argue with that idea.. that it all goes back to what you're attracted to.. but hear me out).

I believe it's lust at first.. and then, because the person is older.. the girl will find that attractive (i.e. a 17 year old girl, telling her friends she's dating some guy who's 23). That way, the guy has his foot in the door.. along with the idea that she could be more easily manipulated.. I could be wrong.. for these are all just assumptions..

Answer 4

as an older guy there is nothing a 15/16 year old can do to get me interested or fall in love ---- have fun

Answer 5

Well i'm a 14 (almost 15) year old girl and a 17 year old guy fell in love with me. All i had to do was be myself and show him the real me. And I was honest with him about my feelings for him.

Answer 6

believe me im going through that phase and i also do think its down to not having a dad around. Im 16 and the thought of going out with a boy my age repulses me they're just immature, i love mature men in their 20's i know it sounds bad but thats just the way i feel. Hopefully we will gro out of it, just make sure none take advantage of you, because that hurts real bad!!!

Answer 7

i dated a 20 year old guy when i was 15/16 and it was amazing but guys like that are different and just bad in so many ways and not the good bad

Answer 8

Honestly, I don't think healthy guys do fall in love with someone younger. The ones who do "fall in love" with a younger girl are either immature and not ready for gals their own age or they are more in lust than love. Younger gals can be manipulated sometimes because they lack experience.

Beware the older guys who say, "I just don't know what it is about you, you're just more mature than other girls your age".

Frankly, beware anyone who is ultra flattering.

Answer 9

They are usually the ones who have had a lot of relationships with older women. They must have experienced and lot of manipulative behaviour, stubbornness and ego in them. So they find younger women desirable. Their physical beauty is also a factor since they are in the blooming period.

Answer 10

Body,Body,Body,Personality