i am single but i have adhd so i take medicine to change my mood so during the day im not myself but i keep watching romance movies and seeing couples and even though guys my age are immature i really want someone to be there wat do i do?
2007-10-07 12:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by fantasygal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grab the dog, a thick blanket and put on "You've got mail"! Eat popcorn and dream. Someday you will lock eyes with the one that will ask you about true love.
2007-10-07 12:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your not able to be happy by yourself then you will never be content with someone else either. You put them in an unfair situation where it is their "job" to entertain you. Find out the things about yourself first before you are looking for a companion. They cannot fill that hole that you feel, only you can and it will always be there until you figure out what you like to do and how to be okay with yourself.
Even though it feels lonely, it will never go away until you learn that stuff about yourself. You are your own person and it is okay to feel lonely sometimes, we all do, it's part of being human. It is not okay to expect someone else to fulfill that loneliness for you. Learn to be okay just being by yourself. Find yourself, because only then will be open to find that companion that you long for.
I hope that things get easier for you. I can't stand other people to feel hurt. I am a very empathetic person. I try to save the world and sometimes it is from themself. Good luck with everything, I hope that you find you. Love yourself. Be strong and confident, it will all fall into place in due time.
2007-10-07 20:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is what ur doing now. Talk to people on Q&A. It helps me from being lonely. Also I can help people like your situation. Next paint your bedroom or house what ever you have. Put in new curtains. Every now and then, something new in your haven!! See now when you do meet a nice guy, Hey your on top of the game. Also you have been extremely busy. Tell yourself, F... this, I'm not ever gonna be depressed ever again! Life is too short.
2007-10-07 19:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be around other people and the only way to do it is to get involved in things that will help you.You shouldn't be alone as you only will depress yourself.Go to a movie with a friend and enjoy life around you.Keep a happy thought and try smiling and someone will smile back.Go to a nursing home and cheer up a person who has no one to visit them.Will make you feel good about yourself.Good luck and think Happy
2007-10-07 20:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by mamaw2305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The medicine you take should allow you to concentrate a little easier, it shouldn't change your personality so dramatically that you are "someone else" during the day.
Give it time, be yourself, and believe me there will be someone for you, probably not your prince charming though.
That only happens in the movies.
Talk to your physician if you feel the medicine is taking over your personality
2007-10-07 19:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by rubgarn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, so just wait.
The more you want something and the more you try to get it, the less likely it will happen for you.
Be happy with yourself, be proud of yourself and who you are. You are lonely because you let yourself be lonely.
It seems like you are comparing yourself to unrealistic icons in movies - real life isn't like that and it's not fair to you to compare yourself to someone who isn't even real.
Your fairytale happiness will come, don't worry. Don't be lonely. You're loved, someone is thinking of you!
When i was single i told myself that somewhere out there, there's someone who will love me for everything i am and he's out there looking for me right now, just as i'm out there looking for him...and you know what? I was right!
Have faith and take heart. You'll meet someone who will promise you that you will never be lonely again. Hang in there hunny!
2007-10-07 19:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what it's been like to feel lonely, you are going to feel more lonely if you keep watching romance movies , you need to watch comedie movies that's going to make you laugh. try to go out with some friends . keep yourself busy .
2007-10-07 20:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by val88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find a guy at any random time. Just wait? I'm waiting too but eh, what else can you do? Can't exactly run up to random strangers and stuff. But hang in there.
2007-10-07 19:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by GRR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Rules" and learn how to attract men. You won't be lonely for long.
Also, don't date someone just out of lonliness. That's not fair.
2007-10-07 19:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Parker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lonliness and frustration are signs that you are not happy with your life right now........So change it....those feelings you are having are a good ''drive force'' for you to get out there and start doing more interacting with people both male and female....its a learning curve...and its good you are asking what do you DO , because you do have to DO something about it
2007-10-07 19:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋