He just enlisted in the army, we have 2 kids already but I just feel like we should have 1 more child for some sort of reason. I have always said i did not want another one, but since he is not home and wont be for another 5 months I really want to have another one. What should I do?
2007-10-07 12:25:40 · 8 answers · asked by na-boo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You and you Bo should really discuss it. I cannot just be your decision it has to be combined
2007-10-07 12:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by camopaiser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have questions for you. #1 Do you have to work to support the family when he is gone ? #2 What is you family income, can you live comfortable on his income without you working ? #3 Can you save money for a "rainy day" or an unexpected health problem ? If you answer NO to 2 out of 3 don't have any more children at this time. My wife never worked while our two children were pre-teens. We lost a 3rd one due to a miscarriage and had to wait 14 years to have two more but by that time the first two were 16 & 14 but in short my wife never worked to speak of and when we were married I was making a whopping $1.25 per hour in 1947
2007-10-07 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your ultimate fear of losing him when he is gone that is sparking this emotion in you, darling.
Try the deep breathing exercises and DO discuss this with him! Sometimes women just have intuition that NO MAN can ever even fathom.......
It's between the two of you, but remember, you already have your HANDS FULL!!!!.......dont forget the two Wee Ones you already have are gonna need you EXTRA much while he is gone! Hugz
2007-10-07 13:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. He may want another child as well, but maybe he wants to wait until he gets home so he does not miss anything.
2007-10-07 12:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by funmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this big change in your life, do you really need another change, like a baby?
2007-10-07 12:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband about it, maybe he wants another one too!
2007-10-07 12:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you and your husband can answer that question.
2007-10-07 12:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until he returns and decide together.
2007-10-07 12:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋