Cannot seem to come to any calmness in my relationship. Boyfriend says it's all about my son, but we spent all Friday talking about his daughter and her threatening emails. On Sat. he's supposed to take me out ALONE, but because I say my son is down he says lets take both our kids to the movies! I say well, okay, but need to ask my son cuz he is supposed to be working for neightbors for the afternoon and evening. (Kids are both 14, we don't live together). I ask my son, he says he got the work so he'd be busy when I went out. I tell my boyfriend, and he gets all pissy because he thinks my son can work less ("just tell them we're going out') and EVERYTHING revolves around my son. My son was making things revolve around our date! I get in the middle! He takes his daughter shoe shopping and gets madder because he doesn't know what to tell her because she wants to make her social plans for the evening. We all end up meeting at the movies at 9:30PM and have a very "cold" time.
2007-10-07 11:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds a bit controlling. I'm not sure why he should care if your son is busy or not. You don't. I would keep this as a red flag. You don't need someone in your life that causes turmoil. That's not a good partner.
2007-10-07 12:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by trapeze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that you need to drop this guy. He's trying to control you and your son. You don't need that.
Let him go or you're going to end up a nervous wreak and angry all the time. Life is way too short.
2007-10-07 19:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your kids run your life..you are the parent..Kids are extremely important though and should never ever be neglected but relationships are important too.If you all can't get along and cant find time for each other and your kids then maybe it's time you move on to someone who can love you and your kid
2007-10-07 19:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by faithwalker_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a control freak so unless you want the rest of your life to be that controlled, dump him.
2007-10-07 19:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunnie dont let yourself be in that position because your son dose come first... and well his daughter is for him/.. and if you have to dwell then dump
2007-10-07 19:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by pinkthongs496 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋