i've been single now for way to long & i'm starting to get love sick, i've been looking around for someone but there is no-one who attracts me, i don't know how much longer i can last without a girlfriend, i don't mean to sound desperate but i seriously am lonley & depressed about being single. The thing that makes this whole thing complicated is that i am in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way, she has a boyfriend & she has no feelings for me, so i really really need to move on. I don't know how though, it's giving me heartache
2007-10-07 11:15:09 · 13 answers · asked by Allstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you depend on someone else to make you happy you will never be. It's nice to have someone to share your life with but they can't be your whole life. You can't wait forever on someone but you don't have to give up you never know what the future holds. Find someone you like being around who makes you laugh if it doesn't feel like your over the first girl you can't move on with the next because it isn't fair to anyone including yourself. No one can help you you have to do it yourself or the next girl is only a rebound and she probably won't be to happy about that when she finds out
2007-10-07 11:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ginger G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know what you mean. It's tough after a relationship and the comfort. i actually found myself looking at Nancy grace on CNN the other night and wondering if she was married.
In my case I have to take care of invalid family menmebers and there is no one else and so much to do can't find anyone to hire. So I understand what you are going through.
as far as liking someone that does not like you and is dating someone, sounds like afriends squeeze andwhat i have found in theat case is to ask athe girl if she has afriend.
If you like yourself it really doesn't matter. If you are not content with life then read an expositors bible, Jimmy Swaggart has one for about $30, with onver 2500 pages and on sale fro, 125, others sell the same at $150-200. You don't know what is around the corner.
You can also go to groups and church and get involved with different community things t meet people. Didn't say if youhave a job or can work but we meet people there.
Hang in there and take care. Almost forgot you need to do some exercise it will help.
2007-10-07 18:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always had to get along with having fun by myself and getting used to it, but let's face it there is nothing you can do about the girl who doesn't like you, you especially can't make her chear on her boyfriend it's stuff like that that causes problem, if people stayed out of people's pants with wife, husbands, boyfriends, or girlfriends then you're just as guilty. But I'm not referring to you I just thought I should state that, but the best you can do is be her friend, a girl is coming for you, you just gotta wait a little longer, until then I'm sure you have the best of friends.
2007-10-07 18:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shichiyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you feel this way. Sucks when you love someone and they dont have any feelings back.. you are right though you need to move on. You cant stay hooked on one girl for the rest of your life.
You cant force yourself on someone either. Finding the right one is very hard. they dont just fall in your lap.
I would do everything you are doing now. There is a girl out there for you....Just wait for it to come to you..
Good luck
2007-10-07 18:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that your probably lonley. As am I. It fells like your all alone in the world and everyone has love but you. but that makes to of us. We are the same. We both feel lonley but mabye I can fix that?
2007-10-07 21:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that you need a girlfriend? It sounds like you are completely dependent. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself first and then you will have something to offer a girl.
2007-10-07 18:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you sound exactly like me, I'm going through the same thing with my ex- girlfriend.... don't go looking for love, let it come to you! God bless!
2007-10-07 18:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want a girlfriend then you have to go look for one. she's not gonna just show up on your doorstep the next morning! go look for girls around your school and get to know them.
2007-10-07 18:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to some public place like a bar. and meet a girl there
2007-10-07 18:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by justin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww... how sweet. =)
Don't worry, you'll find someone special; you're still young.
And in my opinion, you're the exact kind of guy that girls are looking for--SENSITIVE.
2007-10-07 18:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋