um i was just woundering can christains ahve sex before marrige ??
2007-10-07 11:04:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Of course. It would be very foolish to vow to spend your life with someone without knowing if they are violent or inadequate in the bedroom. Of course, considering the divorce rate in the mostly Christian USA, it doesn't appear that marriage vows mean much to most of them. They've made a mockery of the institution.
2007-10-07 11:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by gelfling 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a christian and so is my fiancé. He had sex before marriage with many different girls and woman starting at the age of 13. Guys need this experience so when they find their virgin they can help them feel more comfortable. I was a virgin and was waiting until marriage but my fiancé and I had sex; it's very important in a relationship believe me. It brings you closer together and creates a bond. I'm sure God is understanding of this. If it comes from love then there is nothing wrong with it. As a guy; i think it is okay to have sex before marriage but just talk to God about it. Yes, it's a sin but so is cursing and lying and I'm sure you do this on a daily basis. Theres a limit to it all! You have to be comfortable living your life; just don't forget God because he will ALWAYS be there for you when you need him. Believe it.
2016-05-18 02:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is forbidden before marriage. Jesus said if you even lust after someone you have committed adultery in your heart already. This seems very hard since you would have to completely control your thoughts. That's why Jesus provided a solution to this problem. He died on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins. What a merciful thing for Him todo for us,and at great cost to Him,His very life. We should be eternally grateful. That is why He is deserving of our worship. Words cannot explain how indebted we are to Him. As undeserving as we are, He paid the price for our redemption with His own blood. When you are tempted you have a duty to resist. If you fail, you have an advocate who has forgiven your debt. You must recognize the preciousness of this ultimate sacrifice. Arrogant intentional sin is transgression against God and will be dealt with even more sternly. There seems to be only one way out. And that is true. Jesus is the only Answer. But all we need is one,right? Call on Him when you are tempted and thank Him for His help.
2007-10-07 11:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by JesusIsTheAnswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can, but they shouldn't. But I'm guessing you're 13 or 14 from your spelling, so you should be waiting for other reasons! It's spelt Christians not Christains! And wondering not woundering. :)
2007-10-07 11:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by dontworrybehappy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not supposed to. lust is just another manifestation of our nature to disobey God. all christians are sinners though, and in main-stream america sex is pretty-much in your face all of the time. it is indeed fortunate that the religion is grounded on the idea of mercy and forgiveness.
God knows what is best for his creation, and he would spare us some of the tough consequences that come with our actions, but we choose to disobey him and we pay the price. he loves us no less though, just like a parent hopes to protect his child from harm and so he lays down a law. when the child disobeys there are consequences, but the parent still loves the child and forgives.
2007-10-07 11:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Yeager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like the actual body parts needed are only delivered to Christians via special delivery FedEx on their wedding night.
Tons of Christians have sex before marriage. They aren't automatically going to Hell for it. The whole idea of Christianity is that if you do something that God disapproves of, you can ask, and receive forgiveness.
2007-10-07 11:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had sex before marriage and am still having sex before marriage and thats my sin and weakness. Sex is only allowed in marriage and when you are married and having sex then that is a beautiful thing which God is truly proud of. Sex is not a sin,only when it is outside of marriage and many people do not know or realize that. Sex is a good thing but destroyed my innocence when I copulated with another outside of marriage. It's called fornication and adultery and not allowed in God's eyes.
2007-10-07 11:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can but shouldn't. Waiting till you are married to have sex is Biblical. Then you are free to enjoy God's wedding present to you and you won't have to worry about getting a reputation, diseases, unwanted pregnancies, or a broken heart. It's worth the wait!
(But if you don't wait, you can always confess to God and ask for forgiveness. But it is best to wait, of course!)
2007-10-07 11:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically speaking, over 90% do.
Which begs the question:
Why are there rules against sex before marriage, and condemnations to non-Christians on this account, when the people criticizing us are probably hypocrites?
2007-10-07 11:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
We can but, it is still considered sin. It does not matter rather or not you are sinner or Christian. Having sex before marriage is a sin. One should be married before that happens.
2007-10-07 11:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋