My husband and I will be celebrating our 3 year wedding anniversary in Feb 08. I am thinking of having a "redo wedding" or "renew our vows". When we got married I was 4 months pregnant so we did not get to enjoy our reception as we should have. Everything was done quick because I had morning sickness so bad. I want another chance.
2007-10-07 09:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by Kim L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ignore all these answer do whatever u want. u deserve to have the wedding u want and u deserve to enjoy it. y not have a redo?! just dont ask for gifts. its a celebration so celebrate!
have fun.
2007-10-07 10:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Hmmm. I would think it was a little odd to be renewing vows and stuff after only 3 years. To be honest I would be wondering if you guys had hit a rocky patch (like someone cheated) and you were trying to start over.
Wait for a milestone Anniversary to renew vows...5 or even 10 years....now that is an accomplishment these days!!! To get that far.
But having said all that there is no reason why you guys cant have a kickarse ANNIVERSARY PARTY!!! And invite your wedding guests, enjoy the champagne and even have an anniversary cake.
Good luck
2007-10-07 11:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not redo the vows or anything like that but a party is fine. My husband and I have small cocktail parties for our anniversary. Nothing formal because we have not hit a "milestone anniversary" but we invite a few friends somewhere and have a toast and some cake. Our tradition is to have a replica of our wedding cake (scaled down of course). So in my opinion no to the vow renewal Yes to a small party. WHY NOT?
2007-10-09 06:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by lhallums82 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, yes. There is no such thing as ANOTHER wedding, that would be terribly tacky. There is nothing wrong with having a vow renewal, which is just a ceremony, then just basically hosting an anniversary party with a dinner if you like.
Usually it's done at the 25th, but some get it done at the 10th.
Just be happy with your marriage and family!
2007-10-07 22:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could do it now or wait for your 5th so your child would remember it better. IT would be a blast to have a big party and do a vow renewal. You could do it now AND again at 5 years! One time the minister of my church got married out of state. So, he had the associate pastor do a renewal of the vow ceremony once he and his wife got back home to us so we could see them "get married" there. He had the whole married part of the congregation stand up and renew their vows too. It was quite the hoopala! They had a wedding reception after and we all had a great time! IT is never stupid! IF anyone in your circle thinks it is they can stay home!
2007-10-07 10:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi Kim:
Yes, I think 3 years is too early, as well as 5. I would save it more for a 10, 15 or 20. Sorry that you were sick and your wedding was rushed, but I do think trying to do a "redo" at 3 years is too early. Wait until it's a milestone anniversary.
2007-10-07 10:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think of this is purely slightly stupid. Weddings fee adequate as that's, and that i will wager wedding ceremony planners are people who started this vogue. rather of renewing your vows throw an exceedingly effective social gathering on your next anniversary. i'm effective all your friends and kin could relatively like celebrating with you. i would not positioned my husband by something like a 2nd wedding ceremony for something interior the international. you additionally can spend the money on an excellent holiday in case you probably did no longer decide to have an anniversary social gathering.
2016-10-10 11:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I was going to have a 10th wedding anniversary re-commitment ceremony. Instead were going on a 7 day trip (we never got a honeymoon because of time, money and his family visiting) without the kids. I'm getting a new ring. (we lost ours in a move from one house to another). Being pregnant is a miserable time when your under that kind of stress. My suggestion is to just go and have a re-commitment ceremony without family or the little one. Have a get-away weekend just the two of you. Much more romantic and stress free.
2007-10-08 01:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by navywife_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, yes, it would be stupid. It would be obvious you are still trying to live out your dreams. Let it go. Your wedding was what it was. You dont get another chance.
Renew vows on your 20th anniversary.
2007-10-07 16:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it, go for it!! It is YOUR marriage and it will be YOUR redo wedding. Surely, something like 5 or 10 or 15 sounds better but it´s your life.
You want it, your husband wants it ... do it!
It´s like considering whether anyone thought that your husband might not have been the right choice or whether you should have really given your child the name X.
All the best!
2007-10-07 11:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Bianca W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is perfectly acceptable to renew your vows on any anniversery. Don't let anyone shoot down your dreams, they're not you, they don't know you and have no right to judge what you want to do. It would be so sweet for you to have a vow renewal and have your child participate as either the ring bearer or flower girl. Do what you want, don't let anyone tell you different.
2007-10-07 11:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by BlissfullyHappy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋