She doesn't know i know i found out by reading her xanga, but i still really like her and i want to tell her i like her just to get it off my chest. Should i ask her out as if i didnt know? or should i tell her i know but i really like her? It would be hard to ask her out knowing what shed say, should i have a friend tell her i like her?
2007-10-07 07:13:09 · 15 answers · asked by Bob B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think you should tell her that you like her, are you sure she is a lesbian? because she may be bi-sexual, either way, i dont think you should be like, hey i wanna go out with you, especially if you KNOW that she is a lesbian. I think you should say something more along the lines, of i think you are an interesting person, very pretty, blah blah blah.. whatever, and say i would like to get to "know" you.... then go from there, if she is a lesbian, maybe you could still be friends with her? and if she is just bi- then maybe you could be with her.. and hey, im a bi female, and we are tons of fun!!!
2007-10-07 07:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the point though, of telling her? I don't see what it will accomplish, other then making things weird between you and her. If it's really on your chest, give it some time and it will most likely go away.
2007-10-07 14:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her yourself. Leave the friend out of it, you are saying, at the same time to her "I like you, but not enough to tell you myself. Really I'm just afraid you won't like me back."
Girls don't like that. Just tell her yourself. If she likes girls, suggest that you hang out. You can play hoops or go fishing and let her gut the fish. Dating doesn't have to be all about sex.
2007-10-07 14:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, just be a man and get it off your chest, you could always start out as friends?you can-never have too many of those.plus what you may have found out is a lie, written by some horrible mean girl who doesn't like her?you'll never know unless you ask her out!!just do it, now!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-07 14:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not going to 'convert' her. If you like hanging out with her, certainly tell her. If you think she will eventually be impressed by you, it won't happen. Don't bring up her orientation at all.
2007-10-07 14:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know she is a lesbian why would you ask her out? Now if she is BI then sure ask her out. I wouldn't go "hey I know your Bi or Lesbian but wanna go out?"
2007-10-07 14:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy asked you out what would you say? You can only be her friend. Don't push yourself on her it will only annoy.
2007-10-07 14:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by aj's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should keep treating her the same way. And if your not suppose to know ask her out.
2007-10-07 14:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pay Back Kills 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she is a les than its pointless, but if you think she likes both sexes than give it a shot.
2007-10-08 18:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by wise d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you really like her....and even though you know shes lesb. say that u really like her and wants to go out with her...to get to know her better.
2007-10-07 14:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by PaperbagPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋