How should I do it I dont wanna seem to eager or have her feel that I'm just doing it because her looks. I really like this girl but I cant even say anything to her. I'm pretty sure she likes me she watches me all the time and she pays attention to me when I am alone and bored! But I just dont know how to just go up to her and ask her out!!! What if she changes how she feels over the weekend??? HELP
2007-10-07 05:39:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at my first Question if you want more details
2007-10-07 05:53:43 · update #1
Just be yourself, go talk to her and get to know her. Then if things still feel right, ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she says no. Be ok with that possibility, because most girls at that age mature faster than even boys their age and usually find themselves going after college-age guys. Same reason as to why most Senior boys date sophomore girls.
You've got to keep in mind that you are young and that how you are viewed has alot to do with that. If you can, talk with your parents to avoid any other problems that may come about with a relationship like this. They may look at it differently than you do. They can usually be a good information source (experience).
Even if it don't work out, be cool with it. At least you know. Enjoy your youth and don't be in such a hurry to grow up. It is not as great as you may think. Many of us who are in the real world wish we could go back sometimes to the no worries, no bills, no adult problems, having fun time of our youth. You will soon find that it all passes too quickly. So don't ever be afraid to be you and "Just do it". Then there are no regrets when you're older and looking back.
Good luck.
2007-10-07 06:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by n2dfyrigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a freshman too so I think you should go up to her and ask. Just give it a shot, its worth it and she is more likely to say yes if you do it soon. I am just trying to see the situation as if I am in your shoes and that is basically what I would do and I suggest you should. But if you think it should be more time before you ask her, thats up to you buddie, you make the call. Just make sure to ask before she moves on to someone else. Well good luck, hope you take my advice.
2007-10-07 12:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Betta92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her first.. build a comfortable relationship with her. then ask her out. and if you are still too afraid then get a friend of hers to do it for you and explain to the friend how much you're into this girl. The worst that could possible happen is that she says no. You have 4 years left of high school. theres a great big chance that there are going to be way more worse things than a girl saying no to you. go for it. you'll beat yourself up more for not asking her out then you will if she says no. i'm a girl and i'm also a junior in high school. so trust me on this one
2007-10-07 12:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel like you dont even know this girl yet. Man up and start talking to her so you can really understand her feelings. Then give it a little time and get to know her more. Then if you really think she will go out with you....ASK HER!
2007-10-07 12:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by DJ Lobo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch out for any hints she might give you.
If she is just plain concerned with a freshman like you, then chances of you succeeding is small.
Observe more and act only when it is pretty obvious.
2007-10-07 12:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I discourage kids from dating until in late college. I'd rather they dated to find a mate, rather than dating just to have fun. Lots of kids mess up their lives--their psyches permanently bruised, their family messed up, and lots of regrets run around after a break up.
You seem to me to be a more mature kid than your age, and maybe she has seen that too. My daughter couldnt' find a date to the prom among the seniors, so she asked a jr. It was great, because he was a gentleman and he was much more mature than lots of the seniors.
Walk her to her class. Carry her books. Ask if you can sit by her at lunch. Get acquainted.
TX Mom
2007-10-07 12:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go up to her. One of two things will happen:
"I would love to go out on a date with you."
"I would NEVER be seen int he company of a (ugh) freshman, for I am a Junior."
But, if you do nothing, nothing happens
2007-10-07 12:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So when you go to school be like.
BOY; Hey...you like me?
GIRL: YES I LIKE YOU/ NO I DONT LIKE YOU
BOY: wanna go out? / *laughs*
GIRL: SURE I LOVE TO
BOY: where would we meet?
or ask her to hang out with you more and as your relationship grows between her, usually you guys are just together.
2007-10-07 12:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Glory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to just have a conversation with her. if she smiles laughs and giggles alot and touches you on the arm alot or something like that. then ur 100% sure she likes you. so just teller that u think shes kinda cute. if she replies ur kinda cute too. ask her out. if she doesnt keep flirting with her till you think the time is right
2007-10-07 12:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Freshman shouldn't date, but if you do, buy her a car. That will get her attention. Just don't tell her it's from somebody else by accident.
2007-10-07 12:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋