How do I tell my parents?

Question

Okay, I am 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We've been dating since Friday. Our friends hooked us up on a blind date and we were texting and talking on the computer for 5 months. Finally, on Friday (homecomming), we met and we both fell for each other. He was with me the whole night and then asked me out. I said yes, then he kissed me. I feel like if I tell my parents then they'll flip, but I hate hiding things from them because they trust me. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?

Answer 1

Talk to your parents. How do they feel about you having a boyfriend? Invite him over to let your parents meet him. Good Luck.

Answer 2

You should tell your parents straight away since your only 13 years old. You will feel very guilty if you don't tell them the truth. Talk to them, tell them that you've been texting and talking on the computer for 5 months and finally you met face-to-face with the guy and that you like each other. In my opinion, i suggest you talk to your mother about it since its a girl thing, and then she will tell your father about it.

Just remember, your still young and don't rush into your relationship very quickly with, don't do things that will make you regret for the rest of your life because it will hurt you and you will never forget that mistake ever. Good luck with your decision!

Answer 3

Hello your only 13, this guy is not most likely going to turn out to the love of your life, so to be fair to yourself and to keep the respect and trust of your parents tell them. You see that's why I keep a sawed off shotgun and a 45 desert eagle, you never know when some snot nose 15 year old punk may come around. You kids today are way too much, just tell your parents.

Answer 4

You have answered your question yourself. You hate to keep things from your parents, so don't. If he has only kissed you and you like or even think you love him, this is the time that you should trust your parents. They trust you so why don't you trust them? You are going into a very great time in your life now, and very hard time too. You need to understand that you are in fatuated with your feelings and that your parents can help you. Remember, your parents have simular experienes in their life. Your dad was a teenage boy who loved to fall in love with girls when he was your age. Your mom was a teenager the same age as you. They went through what you are going through. So trust them. They wil not freak, they just don't want to admit you are growing up. They have not been here in this stage of their lives either, but they have been through your stage of life. Trust them to trust you. Be honest and forth right. Thing get hard and difficult now... but you will survive. They trust you and you need to trust them even though you don't see what is coming down the road.

Answer 5

honey, take it from me, I am a parent of a little girl, and we love it when you guys tell us whats going on and are honest with us, it actually makes us trust you more for the simple fact that we see that you're coming to us and respect our feelings, not only that but every parent wants to feel like their children can talk to them about everything. Maybe if you approach the subject where as you might actually be asking their permission or for advice trust me they will be open with you and not flip out because of the simple fact that you are making them feel like their opinion matters. Just give them a chance, you might actually be surprised how laid back we really are:)

Answer 6

Really the only thing you can do is talk to your parents. invite the boy over to your house one afternoon for supper so that you can introduce him to your parents. this way they can talk as well. Let the boy and your parents talk, i am sure that your parents are going to want to ask him a few questions.

Just remember no matter how embarressing some of the questions may seem don't interrupt.

Listen when your parents talk to you..... By inviting him over and listening to your parents it shows that you value their opinions and experience in life matters. even if you do not like what they have to say. Just remember that they have been in your position before and they know what they are talking about.

Answer 7

I think you should tell them and let them meet him. If he is a good guy and respects you even though your 2 years younger which isnt that much of a difference they should let you see him. But you have to tell your parents because if you dont and they find out you are hidding it they may flip out and make you end it. by hidding it they may think things that are not true. if i were you i would tell them before they find out. hope you make the right choice and everything works out!

Answer 8

Hi nelly, i understand the situation in which u r, but lemme tell you that you should never ever hide anything from ur parents as they are the best who'll justify things for you. i will further add that this age is also immature for taking any decisions for life...believe me if u tell ur parents everything frankly...u'll build up more of your faith in them which is far-far more better than hiding from them.

Answer 9

Just tell them. What's the worst that could happen? They're going to find out sooner or later, and if you hide it from them you'll lose their trust AND they might be mad. So just tell them now so you can keep their trust.

♥

Answer 10

YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR PARENTS, BECAUSE THEY TRUST YOU TO DO THE RIGHT THING. IF YOU DON'T TELL THEM NOW THEN YOU WILL EVENTUALLY GET BUSTED AND THEY WILL HOLD IT OVER YOUR HEAD FOR LIFE, AND I KNOW THAT YOU DON'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN. YOUR PARENTS MAY GET UPSET BUT THEY WILL GET OVER IT EVENTUALLY. I HOPE THIS HELPS!!