just over 2years ago i became close to my ex boyfriends friend, he was alwas there to listen to my problems& cheer me up, he helped me put my life back on track. we were just friends & then one day we kissed and we got together, it wasnt long before i found out he allready had a girlfriend. i was devastated and refused to speak to him. i went back to my downwards spiral & i had a bunch of sexual flings including (my ex, his friend) and im sure hes heard about the rest. i could still never stop thinking about him and it was killing me how messed my life was. anyway i had a beautifull baby boy and he got in touch but i couldnt face it, everything was still raw and i felt ashamed of some of my actions. recently him and his girl split and hes got in contact again he says im one of the reasons they broke up,hes said hes sorry for hurting me &making me doubt his love for me. he said hes wondering if he could be a part of me and the babys life.(we've never slept together) will it work?
2007-10-07 04:29:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may work if he is sincere but take it very slowly and make him earn the chance to try again. He may just be trying to move from one affair to another.
2007-10-07 04:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he does have feelings for you all along. I believe the if you feel right about it; then it will work. We are not always in control of our feelings and even though he had a girlfriend he probably liked you better than his girlfriend at that time. But, the flings that you seem to be having should probably be something that you need to work on and not go from one guy to another. It messes your mind and will eventually interfere with any relationship you ever want to have with anyone. Good Luck!
2007-10-07 11:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"be a part of the baby's life" means what, exactly? Showing up now & then with candy? If he can't make a commitment to you (i.e. marriage) then move on, for the sake of your child. Don't let random men "be a part of the baby's life" when it's fun and convenient.
2007-10-07 15:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should read him a little more incase he's only saying that cause he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore and he's trying to use you. So just study him for a little while longer to see if he's still not that cheating type anymore.
2007-10-07 14:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. i did im engaged tomy boyfirned of two years.
2007-10-07 11:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by jerseygirlprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋