I heard my mom moaning REALLY loud last night. My bedroom is right next to their's. I'm assuming they had sex last night. Is that scary? I'm 13, and my oldest sister is twenty-two. Is it normal? My mom had a D & C so she can't get pregnant again.
2007-10-07 03:59:19 · 24 answers · asked by Alice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing wrong with your parents having sex, it's just normal.
They are humans, you know.
It's something no child would want to hear, but it happens.
Perhaps the next time it happens and you just don't want to hear about it, just distract yourself or go watch tv.
2007-10-07 04:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by cass 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't understand until you're older, & are Parents yourselves. It's almost like finding out there's no such thing as Santa Clause. (you know that already, I hope I didn't ruin anything). First it's a shock to learn that Santa doesn't exist, then with time you get over it, then when you're older you look back & can't believe how much in disbelief you were that he never was real. That's what will happen when the shock of hearing your Parents having sex will be like. Give it time, what you're feeling will go away. Just be thankful you didn't "see" them doing it. You & your brother would probably need to see somebody. If it still bothers you two, you should talk to your Parents about it & tell them how you feel. Maybe they'll put a hanger on the door or something for next time, so your brother & you will know to stay away. Hope this trauma feeling will go away soon.
2016-05-18 00:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by latisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sex is completely normal at their age . As far as her not being able to get pregnant after a D&C is not true. But I'm sure they have that covered and that should not be any of your concern. The next time you hear anything turn on your stereo or put a pillow over your head to drown out the noise.
2007-10-07 04:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by GI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantastic be happy . your parents are healthy and love each other . parents having sex gross no matter what . knowing that your parents are fine and the sex they have is good enough for your mom to be heard moaning is great.
try to separate the notion that the sounds are mom and dad and instead try to think its a couple thats all . that and wear some ear plugs.
2007-10-07 05:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi MS
Smiles i rememeber being inthe same place as you are . But i heard her maning and thoguth she was sick and went to the door and opened it. Then i stood there scared **** and went back to my room. It might of took me a few days to realize they are still a girl and guy and that sex is cool. I got used to it and sometimes listend adn ejoyed it. Never said a word to them and would have a little mental smile at times. My room was in the middle of my mom and my older siater she was 16 at the time and when mom and dad would go away i learn alot more..
2007-10-07 04:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal for two adults in love to have relations. And, it's good for you because it means they have a healthy relationship.
However, it is a little embarassing because you are their daughter and if it happens again, you might want to get headphones and listen to some music or just drown out the noise.
2007-10-07 04:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is a normal expression for 2 people to show how much they still care for one another. This is completely normal and healthy for your parents to do. Buy yourself a set of earplugs so you do not have to listen through the thin wall that separates your bedrooms. Just smile and know that your parents are still in love and in a happy and healthy relationship.
2007-10-07 04:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
first of all..a d&c has nothing to do with getting pregnant...second of all...yes it is normal..believe it or not your parents are human beings with feelings as well...i would just tell ur mom that she was a bit too noisy last night....then hopefully she will quiet down a bit for u....
2007-10-07 04:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pixie311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get older just bring your boyfriend over to your room and have sex really loud than your parents would know how it feels. I'm sure it would scare them.
2007-10-07 18:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A D&C?? That has nothing to do with not getting pregnant...
A D&C is pretty much a scrape and clean....gross, I know. But that's what it is. And of course it's normal! Maybe she should be more quiet next time.
2007-10-07 04:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi A 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋