in 13-14 year old relationships how far is the farthest do you think that you should go? im 13 but i have never even kissed anyone- but i kno ppl who have done some stuff so i was wondering how far you think that a relationship should go- like even if u really really like someone.
2007-10-07 02:34:03 · 22 answers · asked by xo_peanut_xo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whether you feel it or not, you are still a child. Why the rush into kissing and beyond.? NEVER do anything you feel uncomfortable with or feel pressured into doing it.
Everything comes with time, and when you are ready. And if somebody is forcing you to go beyond what you want, then let him go, if your girlfriends are telling you what you should be doing, it's because they are scared and worried too.
It's all part of growing up, and believe me sex is only good with someone who really cares about you, unless you don't care about yourself.
So stop worrying, you are still a child, and if someone really likes you, they will respect you even more for it...
2007-10-07 02:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by bee bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think Kissing Is The Furthest You Should Take A Relationship Under The Age Of 16.
Anything More Could End Up Changing Everything.. Your Parents Finding Out For One Would Change What They Think Of You (no longer their little girl/boy) and Also They Most Probably Would Stop You Seeing Your BF/GF Who You Love. Also News Of That Sort Of Thing Spreads Fast.. And Being Know As The School Slut Is Not Good.
Keep It Simple Really Is The Easiest Thing.
No Upset Is Caused To Anyone.
And If Your BF/GF Wont Accept You Dont Wana Go Further with Them Just Yet. Then They Seriously Arent Worth It.
Yer Going Further Is Fun.
But While You Young Just Stick To The Basics Rather Than Risking Things.
2007-10-07 02:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at that age shouldn't go beyond hand holding and maybe an innocent kiss on the cheek or close-lipped smooch. Thirteen and 14 yr olds aren't ready for sexual activity and the consequences of it (even a lot of adults aren't).
There's plenty of time down thoe road for "some stuff" when the parties are educated about what they are doing, the possible consequence, and can accept them and deal with whatever might happen.
Pregnancy and STDs are serious, and can even be life threatening. Anyone not ready to deal with those issues maturely, shouldn't participate in any behavior that could cause them to occur.
2007-10-07 02:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 13 and 14 years olds are mature enough to do more than kiss. If you really like someoene at 13 or 14 why can't you just kiss. I don't believe they are mature enough to deal with the emotion and physical consequences of doing more than that physically.
They should be allowed to go on group dates but never one on one.
2007-10-07 02:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by GoldenButterflyKisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only do what you are comfortable with, and nothing more. Dont let anyone talk or trick you into doing something that you might not be ready for. Also, keep in mind that at your age, your partner may be VERY immature, and might react negatively to even the simplest of activities. And, although I know you have probably heard this before, you should not have sexual intercourse at your age. There are many reasons for this, both physical and emotional.
2007-10-07 02:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No crime in being Sixteen and never been kissed like I was. A lot of my friends are. I think at your age I would go to make out stage and leave it. I'm not even comfortable going past that now and I'm 16. Sex is something you should leave until a) you are legal to do so and b) you are ready. By the way most of what they're saying is probably talk to make them sound cooler.
2007-10-07 02:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by LouLouEm 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Teens that age are not mature enough to handle the emotions involved with their hormones. Especially the boys. The teen years are the experimental times for them.
I don't think that teens should involve much more than being friends, especially at that age.
Sexual relationships shouldn't start happening until after 17 or 18.
2007-10-07 02:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it matters. it is all about how well you can handle things.
I was 12 when i went all of the way, but i was in grade 9 then. I was married by the age 16 and have been together with my same partner happily for 9 years. i am now 21 i have no children and am happier than i could ever be. I am even at uni, so i dont think it matters.
2007-10-07 02:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by wigglywoo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have got to be strong and not let your emotionel feelings take over,no matter how you feel dont let your hormones take over you really dont want to be one of those girls with no pride and a kid at 14.Trust me it will be the biggest mistake of your life!i know that you will have boys pressuring yyou but keep your dignity and virginity for as long as possible for now i think holding hands,dates and kissing is fine but watch that the kissing doesnt lead anywhere else!! dont feel that just because your friends have done it and you bf is pushing you never make the mistake of giving in,my advise anyway!
2007-10-07 03:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by *@ng3l* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, as I know from experience, most of your friend's are lying. And if they're not at the age of 13 then they're slappers. If you do anything other than kissing at this age you will just regret it for the rest of your life. Don't feel pressured into doing anything from anyone!
2007-10-07 02:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋