What should I do? My boyfriend hasn't called me in a week & a 1/2 even though I've called him 4 times since?

Question

Now he called me, left a msg saying we should talk on Monday. Hate the fact that I have to listen to his excuse and have to accept whatever it is and either go on with the relationship or get dumped. Complete loss of control stinks. What should I do?

Answer 1

He's not that into you. Probably doesn't even call himself "your boyfriend" either. You talk about loss of control. Maybe that's what got you in this situation in the 1st place. Guys don't want to sign up with control freaks. Time to move on and find you a sucker who wants and needs someone else at the controls. There are guys out there who want to be controlled. Find yourself one and be happy.

Answer 2

You're doing good..at least you're calling him instead of neither person doing nothing at all...but the fact that he is avoiding you or such..well that's a big open-ended question..
well, if u KNOW he is going to give you another excuse or something (and you KNOW it's a lie), then try and ask him everything you need to ask.
now, IF ur only assuming he is giving excuses..then don't push it too hard. If you're just there and having him treating you like nothing...and if you start losing any feelings for him...then you should just take the alternative.
I would suggest just asking him everything ASAP, probably now too lol waiting until monday is u know...he is ur bf after all, he shouldn't be treating you this way

Answer 3

Ockams Razor informs us that "The simplest explanation tends to work the best".
Have you ever stopped to consider the idea that maybe he hasn't called you because he physically can't? Maybe his phone is broken, so he hasn't received any messages from you. Makes sense right? It could be something just that simple. Rather than listening to all these nice, although not to helpful young women fill yer head with out-of-this world fantasies of cheating and dumping, try a more grounded approach, just wait. I know its difficult to just sit around waiting, but sometimes, that all it takes. Use that time to come up with some good relationship issues that need to be discussed...always a good idea to go in with a gameplan!

Answer 4

If you aren't happy, you should end it. He's giving you signs that he needs space. He also said the worst 4 words you can hear in a relationship, "We have to talk." If he isn't what you want him to be then let it go. It's a hard thing when a relationship ends. Maybe you can work it out when you talk, but I don't really know. Hope everything goes well for you.

Answer 5

Well, if i were you, i'd prepare for the worse. Think what YOU wanna tell him after he talks to you. Its best to know what your gonna say instead of staring at him searching for the words. Cuz then your gonna wish you had told him this and that. So just think, if he says he wants to break up, what are you gonna tell him? If he tells you an excuse on why he hasnt returned any of your calls, what you gonna tell him??? Good luck!

Answer 6

i think you have a control issue..Cause you did say qoute" Complete loss of control stinks", right?...What's there to control it''s just a relationship

Answer 7

you should wake up. He's not interested. You have created a relationship in your own mind, but he isn't participating so you need to stop living on fantasy island and grow up little girl.

Answer 8

don't call him anymore
he's going to think your all ova him
he's not stupid he know how to use the phone
you don't want to hear this but he probably is talk to sum1 else
if he likes u then he would want to talk to you
he's not that into you ne more
and don't fall for the i lost ur #
i was busy bull****
don't stress it

Answer 9

um no offense but i think hes gonna dump u
maybe he met someone else

hope things dont get too bad with u

Answer 10

Stop calling him. When he calls you, be too busy to talk. You don't have to be treated poorly, find new friends.
Later, you will find a new boyfriend who will treat you right.