2007-10-06 14:06:19 · 36 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you? Totally stupid??? And why would you ask a bunch of total strangers on the Internet? Geeze!
2007-10-06 14:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Honeyface 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will run away from this guy since he is asking you to do something that is irresponsible and fool hardy.Apart from the real issue of pregnancy, there is an equal issue with the spread of disease like Aids.While you say you love him, but does he love you or does he just want a sexual partner or booty call.Even if he loves you and his feelings are true and genuine, having unprotected sex with a guy who is not dating you exclusively is a dangerous gamble. Assuming you are old enough to understand the consequences of having sex, then you should most definitely ask him to use a condom .If he cares about you and is not only out for his own pleasure, he should not mind using one.
2007-10-06 14:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!! My Lord God!!! Ok, how many others has he/you been with. Do you want to sleep with all of them too?!!! Catch some disease that CLOROX won't take away!! Get pregnant and he will hit the hills and be NO where around to help!!! So NO NO NO NO!!!
I PRAY you PRAY to GOD and GOD puts condemnation upon your heart and soul and you DON'T do this just because you THINK you LOVE this guy Amen!!
How many times in your life will you CLAIM you are in LOVE just so you will have sex, to justify having sex?
Being pure is the best thing, a virgin!! Tell this guy to take a hike!! If the guy can't respect you, HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!! All he wants is SEX!!
2007-10-06 14:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by gone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie; First of all if he really loved you I'm not sure he'd be asking that of you; he's not so uninformed that he doesn't know the risks. And second, ask yourself these questions. I did and the answers solved my problems.
1. Do you condone pre-marital sex?
2. Are both of you ready to be parents? (not just you or just him)
3. Has he been tested? If not are you willing to get an STD in the name of love.
If you answered no to any or all of the above questions {like I did} I'm not sure you're ready. Answer his question the same as you answered these.
2007-10-06 14:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Theatre's Finest Female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex without condoms unless you want a baby and are completely prepared for parenthood.
It's not worth the risk if you're not ready.
2007-10-06 14:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by josie baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Married to him ??....I take it that you are not, therefor the answer is **NO**, there are so many diseases running rampant in our society, and someone may say they do not have anything, but without a condom, it would be to late to find out that they in-fact are infected. ALSO - Is it worth the chances of getting pregnant and then him realizing that it was to much for him and have him fly ???....
2007-10-06 14:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! What if you got pregnant? Would you be ready to carry his child? Would you be ready to be a mother yet? No, if he really loves you he'll put on condoms for both of your safeties.
2007-10-06 14:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something right now. If this guy loved you like you loved him he would not ask you to have sex without one. Are you ready for a baby or a STD? I doubt you are. guy sounds like a loser, best bet is not to have sex with him at all
2007-10-06 14:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
listen you heading for a train wreck........
beware of low bridges lol
i cant tell not too, but unprotected sex, isnt smart
new born babys, big bellys,
aids, warts
keep the condoms on and wait till your married, want kids
and tell him, can he afford a child right now ?
i bet you get the answer you need ,real fast
2007-10-06 14:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to get on here and ask then you are obviously not secure enough in your relationship to have unprotected sex. Protecting yourself from possible disease and unwanted pregnancy doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend.
2007-10-06 14:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Because if a guy really likes you, and really fancies you then he will have sex with you on yr terms. If he doesnt then he's just not into you enough.
2007-10-06 14:12:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋