he only asks me to go over if he wants something i feel i never ask him to do anything for me and he dosent i do everything and he does nothing i am the one who says i love you and he does only after i do help
2007-10-06 13:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by jenn29ky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time tell him you'll be right over and then go about your business. You aren't a servant and this is not a healthy relationship.
2007-10-06 16:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are setting your self up for a big "hurtin".A man who only calls when he wants something from you whether it is help or something material is only using you.Dump him and he will promptly move on to another "maid".You are being used and I think you know it.If you want to go through life like this stay with him otherwise tell him to call "Merry Maids".Don't waste your time on men who ask things of you with out giving as well.
2007-10-06 21:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by mamahunts 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you are being used and he has no regard for how you feel. It's up to you to stop that and be treated the way that you want to be treated. People treat you the way that you allow. If you put up with that he'll keep doing it. Put your foot down and tell him how you feel about that. You'll only get treated well if you demand it.
2007-10-06 21:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do everything for him enough sit down and talk to him about your feelings sometimes we thing that is like that but you will never really know if you don't speak to him
2007-10-07 04:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything for him, he is a user, I will bet when you don't go over he has some other bird go in and do what ever for him, he is not worth the effort, forget him, dump him, move on find somebody who will treat you with respect
2007-10-06 20:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Next time he needs or wants something.Just tell him you're busy.Tell him no more house calls.unless they're accompanied with three little words.
2007-10-06 21:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does "USED" ring a bell?
2007-10-06 20:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋