sometimes I feel guilty that I'm a different ''smarter'' person now than I was when I had my first baby and I wish he had the me that I am now when he was a baby!
2007-10-06 08:55:39 · 16 answers · asked by tasha l 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
if you were the you you are today when you had your first baby, you would be another you today and chances are you would want to be the you you are today. make sense? what i'm saying is we can always do better. why not be glad for who we are and improve on that instead of looking back and wishing to change things that aren't going to change. if we spend our time looking back we miss the very thing before our eyes! and then we'll be looking back on those mistakes and wish we could change them. vicious cycle. nobody's perfect! enjoy what ya got and learn from your mistakes so that when you lay your head down at night you'll have no regrets!!
2007-10-06 09:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay,you should have my second child. She's completely different from my first so I don't feel smarter at all. It's a whole new ballgame.
While we've got a handle on it now, we've really had some money issues in the past. I feel guilty that we haven't been able to do for my kids some of the things that they deserved and had to move them so many times. It would be great if we were a little more financially stable.
2007-10-06 16:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel guilty when i growl at the kids when it isn't their fault, say, when I didn't have time to fold the laundry and they can't find socks or when they are playing loudly and I'm worn out and want peace and quiet. I try to catch myself but still I do it sometimes.
The only thing you should feel guilty about is something you can change. Otherwise you are wasting your time.
2007-10-06 16:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel guilty of a lot things like eating icecream cheatting on my parner,mm so many things but I never regreat any of because I always learn from my experienses and errors.But still I feel guilty.
2007-10-06 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel guilty that when i had my first child i was 16 and she missed out on a lot of what i should have given her.. the second one i had at 22 had it all the money the home the toys the maturity i needed all of it.. more patience.
2007-10-06 15:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. I'm sure you did your best. I was a "starter" baby and I turned out ok. LOL
2007-10-06 15:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Frogleena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That makes sense... But going through that experience is what made you who you are now. Catch 22
2007-10-06 15:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Crypt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really feel guilty a lot, mostly just like kind of nasty about things I've done that were really not good lol
2007-10-06 15:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidentally flushing my parakeet down the loo when I was 11.
2007-10-06 15:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guilty that i lost my ipod nano cuz my daddy bought it for me and as u kno its really expensive
2007-10-06 15:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋